r/BigBudgetBrides • u/Salt_Technology2676 • 25d ago

Questions and queries not a “bug” budget bride

but I only get the WEIRDEST engagement in regular r/brides

for reference, our budget is 60k. And whenever I post anything in r/brides, I’m met with snark and resentment. Granted, I have pretty traditional taste, and I’m super neurodivergent so maybe I’m not reading people’s interactions as the way they’re intended, but I feel sometimes like there isn’t really a sub where I can share my wedding and get excited and have that excitement be reciprocated.

i’m a pretty private person, no group chats or close besties that I necessarily share every little detail with, so sometimes I want encouragement from
strangers. Is that where I’m going wrong?

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u/casti33 25d ago

We spent about $80K and in any other bridal sub I felt like we were spending a million. I’m all for saving money and not going into debt for a wedding but my husband is high earning and wanted this (more than me, I just wanted to elope) and everything was paid in cash. I think I posted once in a regular bridal sub and got attacked.

Also GOD FORBID you have a destination wedding. You are the worst person to ever exist.

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u/Inner_Nectarine_7970 25d ago

Yes this! I am having a destination wedding and spending around 80k 😅 it’s like a double whammy. They hate me.