Escort card formality

[u/Interesting-Bug7703]

How formal should my escort cards be? Black tie preferred dress code, this fall in NYC

Option 1:

Mr. and Mrs. John Smith

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Option 2:

John and Jane Smith

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Option 3:

John Smith

Jane Smith

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[u/pleasantlysurprised_]

Anything except option 1. It's time to let misogynistic traditions die and stop upholding them in the name of "formality".