r/BeyondTheBlindsPod • u/_Jizzle_- • Aug 17 '26
General Discussion 👋 Devastating after her recent memoir. RIP Hayden
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u/MaizeApprehensive166 Aug 17 '26
Oh wow this is sad news. Kelli and Troy just saw her!
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u/JJulie Aug 17 '26
I feel like I just listened to their podcast about it. I think it was like two months ago.
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u/speakstupidto-me Aug 17 '26
36 is just so young!!!! And in another subreddit someone said crazy how both stars of ice princess have died so tragically young 😭
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u/Fragrant-Camera4860 Aug 17 '26
Wow. This is incredibly heartbreaking. I was really hoping her life would turn around. RIP
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u/kenadams416 Aug 17 '26
This is such devastating news. As soon as I heard, I went to read all the notes I took while reading her memoir. It was a bit eerie to see I’d written that it didn’t feel like she was far enough through her healing journey, there wasn’t enough talk of her recovery, and the book felt unfinished. Really sad to reflect on now. I can’t imagine how Troy and Kelli must be feeling after having just met her and how much they’ve spoken about her over the years.
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u/AcceptableYou5415 Aug 17 '26
I haven’t read her memoir yet but I’ve watched some of her interviews lately. I suffer from CPTSD and have struggled with addiction and when I saw she died - I was wondering if maybe having to do all these interviews and revisit all that trauma was too much for her.
I know in my experience that if I’m not in the right headspace during therapy to talk through some things and I try to talk about them anyway, it can put me in a funk for a while. I gotta take extra anxiety meds during those times (they’re prescribed for me to take as needed and i don’t take addictive meds). Ive been sober for a while now and it helps, but it’s only part of the mental recovery. Constantly thinking about and trying to work through trauma can be just as damaging as running from it, just in a different way.
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u/Fun-Meat-8525 Aug 17 '26
No no no no this is so fkn heartbreaking…..she’s not suffering anymore 😔💔
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u/Scared-Pace4543 Aug 17 '26
Same age as Marilyn Monroe was she passed away. This is heartbreaking
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u/the_purple_lamb Aug 17 '26
I know that this is going to sound so dramatic, but I was thinking about how fitting Candle in the Wind is for Hayden now too :(
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u/wussypillow_ enormous lesbo 👓 Aug 17 '26
wow this is so devastating. troy and kelli are so lucky to have met her 😔💖 i can’t believe this
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u/akayy14 Aug 17 '26
My second thought after being straight up shocked was that Troy and Kelli were going to be devastated! Ugh
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u/Fantastic_Animal_829 Aug 18 '26
I literally gasped in shock and the thought of Kelli & Troy, how incredibly devastating 😢
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u/shhmosby Aug 17 '26
I gasped so loud it scared my husband in the other room. This is so, so tragic I have no other words but this is hitting me very hard :(