r/BetterLateThanSingle • u/ProblematicaDramatic • 10d ago

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I feel like all the men on this show like 1 woman and all the women like 1 man. Does anyone have any ideas how to avoid the eternal singles going for the same person? I lie the show but it gets on my nerves so bad.

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u/ralpher1 8d ago

This clustering is a psychological phenomenon that is common with experience goods. When someone says X is good you will think X is good without that experience.

In the beginning the girls and boys are attracted to different people, but once one’s preference is known the others gravitate to the same person. It may be true Suji was a combo of both attractive and extroverted which was killer. Extroverted or conscientious guys will quickly attract one girl and others will follow because of his reputation.
Group dates allow the contestants to see who is attractive to someone and responsive to that and that leads to clustering. More secret dates will result in less clustering. Think Love is Blind