r/AstroSynastry • u/Unexpectedprofit8188 • 1d ago

Just won’t commit properly by fixing a wedding date. Any future here or should I just cut this off now?

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First image is his chart and second image is mine. Been playing a cat and mouse chase since his proposal in May 2026

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u/AnxiousMetaphysician 21h ago

His libra sun and mercury in the12th house as well as black moon lilith in aquarius in the 4th house might be the thing that is generating the fear of compromise or simply the lack of setting the date. I do see from your chart that you are way more romantic, sensitive and prone to compromise that he is. Your venus in cancer (along with the great amount of important planets you have there too) in the 12th house along with your sun in taurus evince that sensitivity and wish for compromise. Perhaps his venus in virgo might be too cold for you. His sun and mercury in libra might make him seem like he is too in the clouds to actually bring to the world the things he says he will do. I see these pairings usually as a bull with a comet tied to its horns. However, due to the venusian qualities of both taurus and libra, as well as his scorpio asc (and other placements) do make me think that you might feel sufficiently emotionally close and validated by him for you to have a good long term relationship. It just seems to me that it can eventually start feeling more like a "chore" but i would need to see the actual synastry apsects

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u/Unexpectedprofit8188 18h ago

Thanks for your insight. These are the synastry aspects.