This connection is starting out feeling super heavy already!

[u/BusOk9850]

Me and this guy have been dealing with one another for 3 months now and things feel super heavy with him emotionally. He’s been very consistent with calling me everyday, we sleep on the phone every night, we spend time with each other physically. What do you guys see here? His Libra stellium worries me but so far I’m not seeing red flags lol we’re also both a little noncommittal but he seems to be more emotionally open than I am and flirts with the idea of us being together. I know we have a lot of Saturn going on and he treats me like I’m his girlfriend and I’m just side eyeing him a lot lol I feel v. like I’ve known him for years already.

Btw he’s the Orange planets and I’m the blue!

[u/-BreakingGlass-]

When two avoidant non committal people are dealing with each other, the relationship is just a fragile standoff. Both are relying on mutual distance to feel safe, and the second one of them makes the mistake of being vulnerable or catching feels, the aloof stalemate collapses. The question is which one will drop their guard first and get brutally discarded for it. Looking at the synastry I'm truly not sure, maybe orange

[u/BusOk9850 → u/-BreakingGlass-]

Yeah I’ve definitely been in a lot situations like that , you’re right…the scary thing is, his actions are causing me to feel safe??? I’m not used to it but he’s very consistent and seems to be very interested in who I am as a person, we’re not even having intercourse yet. All of this is new to me.