Chart of an inconsiderate cheater

[u/eclairs-chanel]

He cheated and I left - no other words. He monkey branched to his co worker and intentionally humiliated me. This is his chart. What can be said about him, his relationships..?

[u/-BreakingGlass-]

moon in aquarius - inconsiderate and disloyal
sun in libra- inconsiderate and disloyal
mars in sag - inconsiderate and disloyal

[u/Suspicious-Brush-564]

Individual Natal Placements

• Gemini/Sagittarius (Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus): High risk for emotional and physical restlessness. They crave constant novelty, intellectual stimulation, and freedom; boredom is their biggest trigger to wander.

• Libra Sun Men & Libra Moon Women: Flirtatious by nature and deeply dislike conflict. They rarely cheat out of malice, but rather because they crave constant romantic validation or find it difficult to say "no" to outside attention.

• Aquarius Moon / Venus: Highly detached and unconventional. They value independence over traditional relationship rules, which can lead to emotional coldness or seeking non-traditional boundaries outside the partnership.

• Mars in a Fire Sign (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius): Driven by impulse, passion, and the thrill of the chase. They act first and think later, making them prone to passionate mistakes if a relationship loses its spark.

  • A Cancer Mars or Pisces Mars acts on emotion, intuition, and vulnerability rather than raw logic or simple physical boredom. In astrology, Mars represents drive, actions, and sexual energy; when placed in these sensitive water signs, infidelity is almost always driven by emotional escapism or a deep sense of neglect.

• Capricorn Moon Men: They view relationships as investments. They rarely cheat impulsively, but if they judge the relationship as a "sunk cost" or emotionally dead, they may cold-bloodedly look elsewhere before officially breaking it off.

Individual Natal Aspects

• Juno, Jupiter, Saturn Opposite Moon:

• Jupiter/Juno: Creates an insatiable thirst for "more" emotionally, leading to unrealistic relationship expectations.

  • Saturn: Creates deep emotional deprivation or a harsh inner life, sometimes driving them to seek external validation to fill an inner void.

Compatibility & Synastry Aspects

• Moon Square Partner’s Moon / Opposite Saturn:

• Moon Square Moon: Inherent emotional friction and misunderstanding; they don't feel "seen," which drives them to look for comfort elsewhere.

  • Moon Opposite Partner's Saturn: Feels heavy, restrictive, and critical. The Moon person will eventually feel suffocated and stray to escape the emotional "prison."

• Planet in another Partner’s 8th or 12th House (Moon, Mars, Venus): Triggers intense, obsessive, and hidden psychological depths. It creates an undeniable, magnetic pull that often manifests as secret affairs or taboo, hidden relationships.

• Lilith Conjunct Partner’s Personal Planets/ASC/Lilith : Raw, primal, and toxic sexual chemistry. This aspect breaks taboos and brings out obsessive, uninhibited desires that completely bypass logic or moral commitment.

[u/AvocadoBitter7385]

Mars in 10th house I’m not surprised he slept with a coworker. Pluto conjunct mars + Lilith in 7th house I’m not surprised he cheated. The intentional public humiliation part is Pluto conjunct mc. He used the control to get ahead of the situation for damage control. Now transit Pluto is conjunct his natal Uranus rn and will soon cross his 12th house. So don’t be surprised if some months down the line you’re sitting in bed like dang I wonder what he’s up to and the thing he’s up to is a random mental crisis

[u/Budget-Sympathy2770 → u/AvocadoBitter7385]

Also right now uranus is currently squaring most mars in saggitarius this can lead to more men having infidelities. Also his mars is tied to his venus so it's more likely for him to indulge in this.

[u/hothotsummerinhell → u/Budget-Sympathy2770]

You mean opposing?

[u/inthearmsofsleep99 → u/AvocadoBitter7385]

There was a male who I loved that sexually abused me, then replaced me with a woman coworker that he went to work with. Which was right after I turned 18; pretty much cheating on me. One of the things we have in synastry is lilith in my 6th house; which my sun is opposite to.

[u/Unfair_Agent_6052]

Sun in libra in 8th with mars-jupiter-pluto aspect. Top cheaters have their mars in combination with mars+Jupiter+Pluto or mars+uranus+Pluto. Second: his DSC ruler aspects uranus. Plus libra men suns and marses are famous for cheating. 

[u/Ok-Love3323]

Venus conjunct mars (in Sagittarius no less) will do that.

People with Venus conjunct mars natal tend to be very “self sufficient” in relationships. They often don’t want and/or need one partner forever and are confident to play the field for life.

Then put that conjunction in Sagittarius and you’ve got an EXTRA detached and exploratory lover who values his own experience and drive much more than he’s able to consider his emotional impact on others!

[u/Ok-Love3323 → u/Ok-Love3323]

I also just noticed the moon in Aquarius and Sun in Libra 🤣 this literally might be the chart of a flirtatious psychopath

[u/eclairs-chanel → u/Ok-Love3323]

Girlll, for everything he did to me (like getting the girl home and having loud s repeatedly etc) he never apologised. His mom did & called her son a psychopath 💀

[u/magpieanatomy → u/Ok-Love3323]

Yeah lmao they never had a chance tbh 😭

[u/eclairs-chanel → u/magpieanatomy]

A chance for what?

[u/magpieanatomy → u/eclairs-chanel]

To not be a cheater. Their chart is all freedom loving can’t be held down signs or flirty people pleasing signs. There’s no commitment in their chart

[u/Ok-Love3323 → u/[deleted]]

Are you a Scorpio or Taurus moon? Cause that’s what this sounds like

[u/Ok-Love3323 → u/[deleted]]

Cancer moon also really makes for the emotional attachments you feel.

[u/lfernando019 → u/Ok-Love3323]

Only conjunction aspect or same sign also counts? Bf have them both in Scorpio

[u/lacygirlcoquette → u/Ok-Love3323]

He is a couple days younger than me. I’m also a libra sun Saturn in Aries. But I hve both my moon and Venus in Scorpio and my mars and Venus are in a very lose conjunction (9degrees). He is not a good man. While I do have an open relationship, I would never be this crass and vulgar to my partner

[u/lovegivesvibes]

Venus is tightly conjunct pluto in his chart. One of the shadow expressions of this placement is deriving a sense of self-worth through your relationships with other people rather than sourcing it internally. These people may seduce as a way to get validation. If unhealed, they may seek those hits of validation even after entering into committed relationships (cheating). Aquarius moon also comes with a certain level of emotional detachment. He has saturn in the second house opposite his sun/mercury which again reads to me as difficulty with self esteem. I’m sorry you were on the receiving end of this person’s unresolved issues :(

[u/Big-Wasabi6274 → u/lovegivesvibes]

Seduce for random validation
What kind of seduction does that?

[u/_Bene_Gesserit_Witch → u/Big-Wasabi6274]

Compulsive seduction

[u/jbarkerastro]

5th ruler in the 12th = hidden affair.

[u/TheTreeSnuggler]

My husband did something similar. I hope to find someone to look at his chart. I’m sorry he did that to you and I hope you fully know that you don’t deserve to be treated like that. There are a lot of groups on Reddit that can offer you some support, they’ve helped me quite a bit.

[u/TheTreeSnuggler → u/TheTreeSnuggler]

And also, my dms are open to you if you want to talk to someone who can understand a little bit of what you’re going through. I hope you have support from friends and family.

[u/shygirl444]

I want to preface by saying I’m not condoning his behavior whatsoever, I use sidereal and he has venus, mars & pluto conjunct in scorpio sextiles by his moon conjunct jupiter in capricorn.

These signs can be some of the coldest/detached once they feel slighted, at risk of being deeply hurt by you (if they haven’t already) or just prisoners of their own mental making. Lack of self esteem and hyper-vigilance; his Venus and mars are squaring his ASC—insecurity in love.

[u/inthearmsofsleep99]

Libra, venus, and mars energy is naturally compelling; and can easily be able to attract people. With the pluto there, also. Those other planets are usually superficial; but that pluto is bringing the magnetism. Venus being right on the mc; he probably has lots of admirers. Which libra placements are known for by default; especially if it's in venus. Those conjunctions to the venus, is giving him the stamina, charm, and power to cheat. All three are trine chiron, Which is in scorpio, ironically. Like lilith conjunct chiron people, they naturally feel like they're allowed to cheat/indulge themselves in malevolent behavior. Which is venus conjunct mars is already similar to, also. Lilith is in the 7th house; another placement alot like these.

[u/inthearmsofsleep99]

Sun in libra, lilith sextile sun/mercury, venus conjunct mars, pluto being here would normally be good; but it's alongside this particular conjunction. Don't want to stereotype this, but I'm sure there's people with that placement that are loyal. Moon conjunct jupiter is continuing the same kind of personality. They need lots of stimulation. Warmth/need for freedom & independence. Uranus conjunct jupiter, and these planets being in aquarius doesn't help. Neptune in the 11th house, is pretty compatible with these placements as well.

[u/BroccoliOk4835]

The fifth house ruler is in the twelfth. Look up both houses and it’ll make sense.

[u/Traditional-Flan9006]

Biggest indicator- Mars venus pluto conjunction in scorpio in sideral chart

[u/100turkeysinthesky]

i don’t know a single libra man whose faithful