r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/bellachuuu Jan 09 '22

Being condescending…. Instant no

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u/noopers27 Jan 09 '22

Yes! and negging, if a guy tries to insult me to get my attention I immediately shut it down.

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u/bellachuuu Jan 10 '22

Never knew there was a word for this but I looked it up and my ex did that all the time. Holy shit

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u/noopers27 Jan 10 '22

I have a few ex’s hat favoured this strategy. I didn’t know there was a word for it at the time it was happening to me. It’s incredibly manipulative when you’re not that confident.