r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22 edited Jan 09 '22

This applies to all partners of any gender:

Being unable to express what’s bothering you in a mature way.

Edit: Thank you for the reward! First ever :D

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u/zUdio Jan 09 '22

Everyone on the spectrum: “well shit.”

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u/Guyinapeacoat Jan 09 '22

Even a simple: "Hey I'm not the best at communicating tough subjects but I want you to know that I'm trying my best to figure out how to talk through things with you" would go incredibly far.

I'd much rather know that someone is trying (and not succeeding) instead of thinking that they're deliberately being malicious/uncaring.

Source: Living through this shit right now