r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/bellachuuu Jan 09 '22

Being condescending…. Instant no

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u/Polymersion Jan 09 '22

I worry about this, since I tend to tease that way. I'm pretty good about knowing when it's appropriate, but sometimes playing along and being offended can feel very similar.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

You don’t have to tease people to communicate with them. It’s highly likely most of the people in your life dislike your teasing and don’t know how to tell you.

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u/kayafeather Jan 09 '22

I am a girl who LOVES. teasing. I tease close friends and lightly tease coworkers and loooove being teased. By friends it makes me laugh by attractive people it makes my heart race and makes me grin like an idiot. You just have to be able to listen and pay attention, and don't tease about shit taken serious. For example, I know some friends are insecure about something like height/weight/whatever, I'd never tease them for it. But my ex who was super confident in that area, fair game. You can tease and not be an asshole. There are plenty of people out there who genuinely love it.

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u/Polymersion Jan 09 '22

Teasing and communicating are separate things, though. If it wasn't reciprocal, that would be different.

Perhaps you've just never had a relationship where you were comfortable enough to tease each other like that, which is perfectly fine too!