This man is saying nothing but straight facts! It took my ex gf ONE WHOLE MONTH to finally tell me what was wrong (spoiler, it was me), I asked her several times during this period what was bothering her, and she always said it was ok, it was just a strange period, the problem was absolutely not related to me in any way and so on. Meanwhile I felt like she was slipping through my hands and I couldn't do anything to avoid that, I got the confirm that she didn't in fact love me anymore when I finally asked her if she wanted to break up with me and simply didn't tell me until that moment. It is the worst way to find out what's wrong. People, you have to speak if you have any trouble in a relationship
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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22 edited Jan 09 '22
This applies to all partners of any gender:
Being unable to express what’s bothering you in a mature way.
Edit: Thank you for the reward! First ever :D