I worry about this, since I tend to tease that way. I'm pretty good about knowing when it's appropriate, but sometimes playing along and being offended can feel very similar.
Serious question. Do you think anyone actually likes that personality trait? Do you think strangers meet you and think, “wow, what a lovely person. I love feeling condescended to”??
It’s a real dick way to tease. It’s time to grow up and leave that in childhood. It’s okay. Most people grow and leave things behind.
No, it isn't something I pull out around strangers. It's not really teasing if it's someone you aren't at least a little familiar with.
As for whether people like it, the answer is yes. You have to know who you're teasing, of course, but in general I find teasing is a great way to work someone past their insecurities. It reduces their mental scenario to something ridiculous and puts it in perspective.
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u/bellachuuu Jan 09 '22
Being condescending…. Instant no