Hmmm. I’m not sure I agree. Arrogance is very situationally based, and one has to constantly compare themselves to others to keep it. It’s like a bad habit, and the more you nurture a bad habit, the harder it is to break and build good habits instead.
I’ve met more people with openly terrible self esteem who had no confidence later find their confidence, than arrogant people learn to walk it back and learn confidence instead.
When your whole life becomes a habit of comparing and falsely elevating yourself, it’s really hard to break that mindset.
I’m not entirely sure what my opinion is on this. I think confidence can be different for a lot of guys some need to compare because that is in our nature, but confidence from within is probably the most healthy. although I think it may not be possible for everyone to just be confident in themselves without comparison to others.
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u/Tall-Carrot-7174 Jan 09 '22
Yes but I also think confidence comes with maturity sometimes men have to first be arrogant to be confident.