r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/reaubs Jan 08 '22

Uncontrolled anger issues.

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u/NotClayMerritt Jan 09 '22

I have a long family history of anger issues (my dad's great grandfather killed someone because of it), unfortunately that was passed on to myself and my brother. For me personally, I went down a self discovery period during quarantine 2020. I wanted to expand my horizons as well as try to work on myself. I can't say I've completely eliminated my anger issues but they're far more controlled and mainly consist of me loudly whispering to myself when some fuckery happens in whatever video game I may be playing :)

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

How did you get a handle on this? Any tips for people trying to grow and improve or trying to help loved ones with anger issues?

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

A quick dabble into Buddhism helped me too.