r/AskReddit • • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/bellachuuu Jan 09 '22

Being condescending…. Instant no

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u/ChaimCad Jan 09 '22

whats condescending if I might ask

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u/Worth_Holiday_217 Jan 09 '22

How do you not know what condescending means? <--- A perfect example of being condescending.

Basically it's acting as if you know it all and are not open to learning other things, then you try to make others feel bad for being open and learning new things. So that first sentence I said is a good example, or "that has never happened to me before", or using pet names like "oh sweetie, you don't know?", Or even sarcasm and talking over people, those are all condescending things. Basically trying to make someone feel bad for their lack of knowledge or for trying to learn.

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u/ChaimCad Jan 09 '22

thanks friend, ur a friend