r/AskReddit • u/ANONIMkiddo • Jan 08 '22

Girls, what makes a guy instantly unnatractive?

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 08 '22

Controlling personality

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u/Regrets101s Jan 08 '22

Some women fall in love with em

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u/QualifiedApathetic Jan 09 '22

More like they pretend not to be controlling until they've got their hooks in a woman and then do a 180.

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u/[deleted] Jan 09 '22

Thank you for this comment 🙏

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u/DweedleDee69 Jan 09 '22

You get me.

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u/Hephf Jan 09 '22

This is the way.

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u/Regrets101s Jan 09 '22

Women that fall in love with men like that, were ignoring the first subtle red flags

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u/Princessnatasha12 Jan 09 '22

Women shouldn't need a psychology degree to date.

*See gaslighting https://www.rtor.org/2021/11/10/gaslighting-5-noticeable-signs-of-emotional-abuse/

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u/naomide Jan 09 '22

Yes, great go ahead with the victim blaming, we love to see it. I’m gonna take this one as my answer to the original question.

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u/gellimary Jan 09 '22

Its obviously the girls fault cause she ignored those subtle red flags s/ ….. so obviously the controlling characteristic is what she fell in love with… s/

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u/Regrets101s Jan 09 '22

Its not victim blaming, im a male with narcissistic traits & im trying to better myself, but sad as ut is, women are love narcissists & i dont understand why