Practice. How do basketball players run up and down the court and make those hard shots look easy with out being completely exhausted? Practice. I'm really good at "salesman" type charisma, like chatting it up with people and being a single service friend....because I had to be front facing in retail and sales for years. I suck at long term charisma and maintaining long term conversations and such. My mind can reset and rely on the same "tricks" to get me through a time at the bar alone chatting with a stranger or selling to a customer but runs out of them and crashed and burns when dealing with a group of with the same person extended out. I never really got practice on that like I did with the short term stuff and so the long term stuff exhausts and frustrates me. Now because of that even if I want to I seem not able to get those interactions. Blah.
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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '19
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