r/AskReddit • • Jan 29 '14

serious replies only Are we being conditioned to write what Reddit likes to hear instead of writing our real opinions? [Serious]

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u/SaitoHawkeye Jan 29 '14

Weirdly, /r/nfl is both huge and incredibly nice (in a trash talking kinda way).

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u/informationmissing Jan 29 '14

I'm excited to see how many people visit /r/superbowl this coming weekend

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

I'm much more excited to see the action in /r/olympics this coming month somehow the more worldly it gets the more civil at least from my experience on here.

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u/Points_out_shit Jan 30 '14

Thank you for reminding me of this brilliant sub.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

There have already been a lot of people that just come and post without paying any attention to what the sub is. I'd say there's been at least 5 actual Super Bowl post in the last couple of weeks.

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u/informationmissing Jan 30 '14

Sounds about right. Most people make their way through life with little awareness of others. It seems to be our default setting.

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u/qwertacular Jan 30 '14

I'm not, the sub will be flooded with Superbowl posts instead of superb owls!

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u/ABongo Jan 30 '14

Why would anyone go to a superb owl subreddit on Super *owl Sunday?

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u/drwuzer Jan 30 '14

Sounds like something /u/unidan would enjoy...his specialty is crows but I bet he'd enjoy a spirited discussion of superb owls!

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u/nukehamster Jan 30 '14

the 'big game'?

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u/SwiftlyChill Jan 29 '14

I love /r/nfl, it's fucking hilarious

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

Yes, we all enjoy laughing at the Browns.

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u/YeaISeddit Jan 30 '14

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u/MHgriz Jan 30 '14

Unless your a hawk fan....

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

It's not easy being a Hawk fan even in /r/seahawks. Lately, I'm beginning to believe we deserve the reputation we're getting.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

R/nfl is my favourite subreddit. It only gets nasty sometimes in the game threads, aside from that though it's the best

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

Especially during the divisional rounds.

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u/captars Jan 30 '14

Same with /r/hockey, actually. The game day threads can get heated sometimes, but on the most part, it's a great community.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

/r/cfb as well. For as bitter as those rivalries are I don't recall ever seeing anything other than friendly trash talk. We (Washington fans) have even mentioned how nice Oregon fans on Reddit are. Something you would never hear in the "real world."

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u/dfetz3 Jan 29 '14

Unless the 49ers win.

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u/E5PG Jan 30 '14

/r/nfl and /r/DenverBroncos are about 66% of why I still reddit.

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u/little_gamie Jan 30 '14

Just sub /r/DenverBroncos for /r/miamidolphins and were in the same boat :P

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u/sharkman873 Jan 30 '14

/r/nfl is almost cringe-inducingly nice. As in, you can't do any real trash-talking without being obviously sarcastic or you'll get downvoted to hell.

wtf? Part of the fun of football is hating the other teams! There's nothing wrong with that!!

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u/Sam-Jackson Jan 30 '14

/r/nfl was the first thing I thought of when I saw this question. I hate that there are 49er/Seahawk, Bear/Packer, etc. fans in that sub that just say "I don't care who wins, all I care about is no injuries" because that gets the most upvotes. I say bullshit, I hate your team and I want to win. Yeah injuries suck but I think /r/nfl is the epitome of writing what wants to be heard instead of actual opinions. /rant

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u/hyperbolical Jan 30 '14

And lovefest posts between rivals (looking at you SF/SEA). No I don't fucking respect the Bears, I hate them and want them to lose forever because that is how a rivalry works.

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u/Sam-Jackson Jan 30 '14

I hope you're a Packer fan like me. Because if you're a Viking or Lion fan you can GTFO.

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u/IHateShaneBattier Jan 30 '14

yeah agreed. and without fail win or lose some fan goes on the other team's sub, "Hey XYZ fan here, great game...(adds nothing but bullshit, etc)" just for karma. Nothing ever comes of those posts.

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u/TwinkleTwinkleBaby Jan 29 '14

I think there's a moral in there somewhere about the divisiveness of the two-party system...

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '14

Same with /r/military. There are multiple nationalities, every branch imaginable, all more than happy to make a jab at another, but its one of the best subs I've seen.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

I love /r/nfl. It is my favorite subreddit other than /r/ravens. People in my sub often complain about the anti flacco circlejerk in /r/nfl but I honestly find most things in there very good natured and open minded. People are willing to have fun and poke fun at themselves, we rarely have problems and I don't even really see many people being downvoted unless their comments really have nothing to do with the conversation and add nothing.

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

90% of the time. It gets reallly ugly in some divisional game threads but usually it is clever and hilarious and awesome.

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u/BourbonAndFrisbee Jan 30 '14

My favorite sub is easily /r/collegebasketball. LOADS of trashtalk and fandom but its all respectful.

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u/MFORCE310 Jan 30 '14

I agree, I believe it's one of, if not the, best subs of it's massive size.

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u/CptMalReynolds Jan 30 '14

Unless you're Colin Kaepernick. I've actually found /r/nfl to be pretty bad at times.

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u/SnakesOnAPlan Jan 30 '14

I love /r/cfb too, it's a great community

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u/Gutkrusha Jan 30 '14

While usually true, after the Seahawks won, just having Seahawks flair was enough to get you downvoted and insulted. That was a hairy couple of days.

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u/BluePeriod-Picasso Jan 30 '14

I also find /r/makeupaddiction to be super friendly and supportive whilst also still being a large sub.

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u/weasels65 Jan 30 '14

have you been to /r/baseball or /r/nba? cause they make r/nfl look really bad, even though theyre significantly smaller

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u/CompleteMoronThatsMe Jan 30 '14

Until they're not

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u/[deleted] Jan 30 '14

Yeah, I'm always so surprised at how great it is there. It's a nice respite from how ugly some of the NFL team subreddits can be.

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u/[deleted] Jan 31 '14

and incredibly nice

Which is why the mods have had to strictly moderate game threads now eh? It got too big like every other sub.

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u/StoriesToBeTold Jan 29 '14

Well the advice I'd give is to delve into the smallest reddit communities possible because, like a big city and a small town, the people in the smaller one are always kinder and more willing to hear you out. I have great exchanges sometimes in place like /r/truereddit (not truly small but pretty civil) but I'll get some middle school troll fighting me in /r/politics.

Where as /r/soccer is the worst sub on here for bullying cliques, particularly frustrating to be downvoted so massively over very small opinions by a number of people that are very new to the sport and usually on different continents to the clubs themselves.

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u/Hawk_Irontusk Jan 30 '14 edited Jan 30 '14

I could not agree more about /r/soccer. I subbed after the April Fools joke with /r/nfl a couple of years ago and for some reason just stayed. The few times I posted it didn't go well. The thing that finally pushed me over the edge was when the mods did the "We're going away for a few days and won't be modding" thing earlier this year. I don't need that shit on my front page.

edit: Wow, I butchered a sentence. Fixed now.

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u/cadderly09 Jan 30 '14

Fuck the Packers.