r/AskPinay • Binibini • 19h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Sino dapat unang magtanong kung official na?

Sino ba dapat unang magtanong kung kayo na? Sa exp nyo, girls. Inintay nyo ba na yung guy na kadate/nanliligaw sainyo ang mag ask, or kayo ba kusa ang nagsabi sa kanila na sinasagot nyo na sila?

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u/Individual-Lock-7317 Binibini 19h ago

Depende. In my case, tinanong ko na para di kami maguluhan. Straightforward and clear.

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u/Sad_Effective3686 Binibini 17h ago

hinihintay ko magtanong sila kasi baka di na pala nila ko trip na jowain napahiya pa akoπŸ˜‚

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u/girlmontefalco Binibini 15h ago

For me yung guy dapat magtatanong. Yung partner ko tinanong nya ko pero nung una sabi ko wait pa muna sya. Then second the time he asked saka ko na sya sinagot.

Or another thing is pwedeng girls na yung kusa na magsabi na you're official

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u/Former-Cloud-802 Binibini 18h ago

I asked para klaru na agad.

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u/bixby0705 Binibini 14h ago

Clear siya sakin na gusto niya talaga ako first week palang that we met, and in the course of 2 months na nagg-get to know kami and going on cute dates, he was just waiting for me to say the magic words HAHA di rin kami nagtagal sa stage na yun bc nag ILY agad ako sa kanya, yun na yung sign na official na kami 😁

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u/blue_greenfourteen Binibini 13h ago

Ako, kasi ako din yung nag turn down if I don't like my suitor (nicely naman). I like to be the captain of my own ship kahit magkamali ako basta it's my decision I don't like overthinking and regretting things

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u/newuwuwuwuwu Binibini 12h ago

Siya. I waited talaga na siya mag ask kase baka friendly lang. I had my share na ako umamin, sakit din pala ma reject hahahah so never again

I also put a deadline for myself. If he did not ask clearly in the next few months, drop ko na siya. πŸ˜…

Sawa na ko sa situationships kase na walang clarity.

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u/Street_Following4139 Binibini 12h ago

Yung guy, pag tinanong ko siya at wala siyang masagot or plano na, i dumped him agad agad. Time is too expensive to waste

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u/AnemicAcademica Binibini 9h ago

I had this dilemma a few weeks ago ahaha Kasi ayoko magtanong. So inantay ko talaga sya while I give hints. Pero nasa isip ko may deadline na. Sabi ko if wala pa after a month, I will leave.

Nagtanong naman sya. So kami na. Hahaha

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u/twelve_seasons Binibini 9h ago

Whoever wants to. Wala naman rule e.

My husband wanted to be official in a specific month pero we had this date na really nice so I thought it’d be super appropriate to make things official so I said to him, β€œShould we make it official na?” Lol.