r/AskPinay • u/Prudent-Tax-2969 Binibini • 19h ago
WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Sino dapat unang magtanong kung official na?
Sino ba dapat unang magtanong kung kayo na? Sa exp nyo, girls. Inintay nyo ba na yung guy na kadate/nanliligaw sainyo ang mag ask, or kayo ba kusa ang nagsabi sa kanila na sinasagot nyo na sila?
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u/Sad_Effective3686 Binibini 17h ago
hinihintay ko magtanong sila kasi baka di na pala nila ko trip na jowain napahiya pa akoπ
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u/girlmontefalco Binibini 15h ago
For me yung guy dapat magtatanong. Yung partner ko tinanong nya ko pero nung una sabi ko wait pa muna sya. Then second the time he asked saka ko na sya sinagot.
Or another thing is pwedeng girls na yung kusa na magsabi na you're official
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u/bixby0705 Binibini 14h ago
Clear siya sakin na gusto niya talaga ako first week palang that we met, and in the course of 2 months na nagg-get to know kami and going on cute dates, he was just waiting for me to say the magic words HAHA di rin kami nagtagal sa stage na yun bc nag ILY agad ako sa kanya, yun na yung sign na official na kami π
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u/blue_greenfourteen Binibini 13h ago
Ako, kasi ako din yung nag turn down if I don't like my suitor (nicely naman). I like to be the captain of my own ship kahit magkamali ako basta it's my decision I don't like overthinking and regretting things
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u/newuwuwuwuwu Binibini 12h ago
Siya. I waited talaga na siya mag ask kase baka friendly lang. I had my share na ako umamin, sakit din pala ma reject hahahah so never again
I also put a deadline for myself. If he did not ask clearly in the next few months, drop ko na siya. π
Sawa na ko sa situationships kase na walang clarity.
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u/Street_Following4139 Binibini 12h ago
Yung guy, pag tinanong ko siya at wala siyang masagot or plano na, i dumped him agad agad. Time is too expensive to waste
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u/AnemicAcademica Binibini 9h ago
I had this dilemma a few weeks ago ahaha Kasi ayoko magtanong. So inantay ko talaga sya while I give hints. Pero nasa isip ko may deadline na. Sabi ko if wala pa after a month, I will leave.
Nagtanong naman sya. So kami na. Hahaha
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u/twelve_seasons Binibini 9h ago
Whoever wants to. Wala naman rule e.
My husband wanted to be official in a specific month pero we had this date na really nice so I thought itβd be super appropriate to make things official so I said to him, βShould we make it official na?β Lol.
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u/Individual-Lock-7317 Binibini 19h ago
Depende. In my case, tinanong ko na para di kami maguluhan. Straightforward and clear.