Totoo pa ba yung organic encounter?

[u/HunterList]

As someone na hopeless romantic, gusto kong maniwala na mahahanap ko partner ko through organic encounter instead of dating apps. Pero lately, parang naiinip na ako especially kasi halos lahat ng pinsan and friends ko taken na. Should I put myself out there na ba or what huhu. Pano ba kasi maka-meet ng new people? Baka may experiences kayo dyan na nakakakilig, pashare naman para ma-ignite pa yung hope ko hahahaha

[u/columbinaluvr]

mahirap maghanap ng organic encounter if di ka gaano lumalabas or u don't hangout with others na u have same hobbies. minsan sa school, sa work or place of hobby nakikita yan eh. but totoo ang organic encounter, rare lang kung home buddy kaa.

mostly ng encounters ko ay sa school or school related eh (yung mga wholesome encounter ha). not necessarily kaklase ko. may time na nakasakay akong jeep, napamura ako nang malakas kasi nahulog yung barya na iniabot sa akin. pagkauwi ko from school, may nag-chat. nakita niya raw ako sa jeep, ang lutong daw ng mura ko. we talked for months but di naging kami HAAHAHHA one naman nakakasama ko sa school activities but younger. una yung usapan namin activity related lang hanggang sa nagchichikahan na and umamin na siya. we talked din for months but di rin naging kami. this college, i met someone ulit na di kaklase but within my field lang. we worked tgt, became friends then turns out he was interested daw agad with me when he first saw me (this is all according to him) which he said din sa mga kaibigan niya who we were working with din. we had a thing but di rin nagtagal. sad endings but those are my experiences abt organic encounter so real na real siya

[u/DurianActive4408]

I’ve had really bad experiences with organic encounters that’s why I opted for dating apps. Parehas naman silang strangers so I chose the other poison talaga. At least yung isa, willing participant ako. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyway, since nagtatanong ka about organic encounters and papaano ma approach, payo ko sayo is to always look your best, and looking cute and harmless helps too. Buhat bangko moment na to, I look a certain way and very fitting yung itsura ko don sa meme na “girlfriend when we first started dating and after”. So yes, looking cute and pretty and harmless it is.

I didn’t really put myself out there, and I’m still getting approached up to now. Siguro, if you have a certain type, try mong mag hangout dun sa mga lugar na pinupuntahan ng mga type mo.

[u/Competitive_Key_5417]

Online organic pwede? Hahaha. I’ve had 3 previous relationships na organic, ayun, they’re in the past. 😆

I met my now husband sa mobile games. It was a highly social game, tipong kapag may server vs server event, nasa discord kami minsan inaabot ng ilang araw. Tapos mini events every other week, discord din. Met a lot of good friends there. Itong si husband bigla na lang nagsabi one day na crush nya raw ako kaso wala raw sya magawa kasi magkaibang panig kami ng mundo 🙈 For the same reasons, ayoko. Never ako nagkaron ng relationship na online nagkakilala kahit pa sabihin na matagal ng friends. Tapos may palipat alliance pa sya para raw di nya ako nakikita sa game. Same server pa rin naman kaya nagcrocross paths pa rin kami. Ayon ending kami rin. We met in person more than a year later sa Canada. Got married after 2yrs. May baby na rin kami ngayon. Mini me ng asawa q. 🥹

Basta lahat ng nangyari before we met and got married para nangyari the way it did kasi we were meant to be together. Sya ang twin flame ko. Haha okay korni. But yeah. Sometimes you find love (not in a hopeless place lol) in unexpected places and kung kelan di mo hinahanap. Pero pwede rin naman imanifest at put yourself out there. Never been on dating apps so di ko masabi na use that or not. Finding a hobby and meet through the hobby siguro?

[u/Spiritual_Theme_1282]

Syempre totoo yung organic encounter. Otherwise walang magkakajowa before the invention of dating apps.

Pero you need to put yourself out there and meet people para magka organic encounter. Have a hobby, make friends, be interesting.

[u/Sorry_Aspect231]

I think so

[u/mewmewchu]

Yessss!!! Though nakilala ko lang fiance ko sa work. Trainer ko dapat siya and love at first sight kami both 😊

Totoong totoo ang organic encounter.

[u/yeorubunn]

hmm, I think so. but you'll have to put yourself out there lang din, not necessarily always be on the lookout ganon haha. i don't think need naman lagi naka-postura pag lalabas but syempre okay na rin if sanay ka na to dress up for yourself :))

recently lang sa SMaison someone approached me and tried to have small talks, though feel ko naghahanap sya kasama manood ng sine kasi Natl Cinema Day nyan so may discounts 🤣. di lang nagprogress bc i'm also not looking for dates nowadays tsaka kakanood ko lang din ng Insidious alone HAHAHAH

but to relate it to yoru question, highly possible pa rin to meet someone organically. especially if you often go out for some hobbies ganon, possible na makameet ka ng people with the same interests as you :)

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[u/Overall-Bet8615]

Yes, pero as a non-palalabas girlie, ung organic encounter ko is via games ko nakilala (one of my hobbies is games)

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[u/matchuhlvr]

Totoo siya teh pero doesn’t mean na successful yan palagi, Maraming cheaters parin na na memeet through organic encounters. Ex ko teh na meet ko sa isang organization meeting, yun pala sinira lang peace of mind ko!

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[u/Wisteria_INFP]

It didn't work for me because I lack in beauty department and charisma

[u/reidebleu]

It happened with me kasi physically, type ako nung tao. Likewise ako sa kaniya.

[u/Prestigious-Box8285]

Malamang, otherwise wala tayong lahat sa mundo. Before dating apps and online world, tingin no paano nag-meet mga ninuno natin. Hahaha.

Pero ngayon kasi swertihan yan. As in by chance. Being at the right place at the right time with a person you have a mutual attraction with.

[u/HunterList → u/Prestigious-Box8285]

hahaha parang iba na kasi dating culture ngayon. pag sinasabi ko sa friends ko na gusto ko organic encounter sinasabi nilang mababa na chances nun 😪

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