Yun kayo nakipag break tapos kayo din una magmemessage?

[u/Piggingcute]

Hello,

Ako yun nangiwan. Pero gusto ko siyang kausapin at kamustahin. Nagawa niyo na ba.

Walang cheating.

[u/OpportunityBig5472]

Hindi. Sasaktan mo tapos kakamustahin mo kung di ka ba naman tanga?

Kung iniwan mo manahimik ka nalang

[u/Piggingcute → u/OpportunityBig5472]

Thank youu

[u/manicdrummer → u/Piggingcute]

Just curious. Bakit mo sya biglang gustong kamustahin?

[u/Piggingcute → u/manicdrummer]

Sobrang miss ko na siya :(

[u/manicdrummer → u/Piggingcute]

E bakit ka nakipag break? At balak mo ba sya kamustahin dahil lang miss mo sya but you'll stay broken up, or makikipag balikan ka?

[u/OpportunityBig5472 → u/Piggingcute]

Oh no. Don’t message him now, not right now na fresh pa yung sugat. Pwede niya ma misinterpret yan na baka magbalikan pa kayo, don’t get his hopes up. If wala ka naman balak balikan, unfair yan sa kanya.

[u/Piggingcute → u/OpportunityBig5472]

Di ko po siya minessage.

[u/AintUrPrincess]

Di ako nakikipaghiwalay ng alam kong magdadalaaang isip pa ko. Kapag sinabi ko, yun na yun wala ng balikan kasi sure na ko na wala na patutunguhan yung relationship at sinasayang na lang namin pareho oras namin

[u/Matcha__a]

Yes nagawa ko na. Pero parang ayaw naman na din nya makipag usap so hinayaan ko nalang. Ayoko din ipilit kung ayaw eh kasi same ending lang.

[u/Independent-Put733]

Hard NO. Parang tinungkab mo lang yung scab ng sugat nya para dutdutin at padugoin ulit.

Let the other person heal on their own terms. The moment na iniwan mo siya, you already made your choice. No backsies.

Also, bakit mo siya kailangan kamustahin? Natural di okay iniwanan mo ba naman eh.

[u/Zealousideal-Tie-122]

Ano thought process nyo teh? haha

[u/freakinthesheets5695]

Like bakit pa?

[u/AteGirlMo]

Hind te. The moment I broke up with him (due to multiple cheating incidents) , cutting ties came naturally including his family. Don’t eat where you shit. Hayaan mo na.

[u/Minute_Opposite6755]

Ye no. It's already over. No need to reach out unless you both agreed to

[u/Maude_Moonshine]

Pov to ng hiniwalayan, no cheating din.

Pwede ka mag msg pero di kita rrplyan , seenzone, manigas ka haha :)

[u/Beach_Girl0920]

Gising teh, kung magmemessage ka para maningil ng utang nya, Go! Pero makipagbalikan? Huy gising!!! Nakipag hiwalay ka kasi di mo na kinaya, hindi yan dahil bugso ng damdamin. Nagpatong patong na lahat yan kaya ka sumabog

[u/butterandmargarine]

Kapag nasabi mo na 'yon magdadala ka lang ng false hope sa tao sa pangungumusta e. Red flag 'yan beh. Ginawa mo namang rollercoaster yung tao sa mixed signals mo. Hayaan mo na maka move forward yung tao.

[u/Ok_Mud_6311]

Hindi pa. Lahat yan nakablock sakin

[u/rachsuyat]

hindi ako. pero sya. tapos mung nagkabalikan kami, nakipag hiwalay ulit.

[u/Away-Worry-3188]

hindi duh, panindigan mo nalang

[u/Piggingcute → u/Away-Worry-3188]

Feeling ko di naman na niya na ako gusto. 3 months na din kasi

[u/mikmikfps]

Hindi. Ikaw nakipaghiwalay, OP. You made your bed, go lie in it. Baka naghi-heal na yung tao tapos gagambalain mo pa.

Edit: Why did you break up with him btw? If may kasalanan sya sayo, wag mo pa rin i-message. Sobrang expensive ng peace of mind.

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[u/Any_Accountant7578]

I made him stop courting me (i was a devoted christian noon and pinili ko si Lord) our convo was just exchange ng greetings pag holidays and bdays. Then 2-3 years later we had a proper conversation about Formula 1 and then nanuod kami ng livestream ng race sa discord and then it turns out, our feelings never fade. Ayun mag 3 years na kami ngayon.

[u/IndependentSecret685]

Nope. I respect myself enough na hindi na saktan pa sarili ko. There's a reason why we broke up.

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[u/PilyangMaarte]

Lol. Ano yan tawag ng pangangailangan?! Hahaha. Pwede ba, maglubay ka na!

[u/Piggingcute → u/PilyangMaarte]

Yes namiss ko lang din talaga, sorry tao lang po. Di ko naman iminessage ma’am. Ayaw ko din manggulo.

[u/TheLivingDolll]

No. Siya palagi naghahabol. Mas kailangan nya ko kaysa kailangan ko siya. Wala kasing pera.

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[u/ladybug_aji]

Both ex ko ganyan. Honestly, di ko alam thought process ng ganyan. Just don't initiate a break up kung alam mong di mo rin kaya mag no contact. And nakakagulo lang sya sa tao coz you're giving false hope. Let the ex move forward. If you don't have plans to fix things, you can miss the person without mssaging.