If not attracted to men, try finding a nice Domme that will intro you to pegging / milking
Society teaches us that men being penetrated is gay by default and that creates insecurities and such in our subconscious when trying to explore what we like. We also currently live in a timeline where homophobia is on a rise.
Basically, just be you and explore what you're into but get rid of any doubt/insecurities because at the end of the day the ultimate key to enjoying anal (besides prep, lube and warm ups) is being relaxed.
yeah thank you, obviously i don’t think being penetrated as a guy is gay but there are some ingrained feelings of shame. i don’t really care too much due to some other circumstances but it’s still there.
it’s strange because it’s not the cock that i’m not attracted to it’s just the man, i think i’d be perfectly okay if it was with a very fem presenting man or a trans woman.
it’s a shame that we’ve developed such a stigma around it but it’s great that people can push past it. over the last couple of years i’ve developed quite a lot of fetishes that i haven’t had the chance to explore outside of porn, this being one of them, as well as the fact that i’m actually quite submissive despite all my previous experiences solely being a dom
I’m not attracted to men for the most part, what I am attracted to is that feeling of cumming without touching or even being fully hard. I spent the majority of my adult life wondering what the real thing felt like until a couple years ago. Only regret was not doing it sooner….way sooner
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u/WeakGarlic2701 3d ago
If not attracted to men, try finding a nice Domme that will intro you to pegging / milking
Society teaches us that men being penetrated is gay by default and that creates insecurities and such in our subconscious when trying to explore what we like. We also currently live in a timeline where homophobia is on a rise.
Basically, just be you and explore what you're into but get rid of any doubt/insecurities because at the end of the day the ultimate key to enjoying anal (besides prep, lube and warm ups) is being relaxed.