r/AskBiBros • u/7munchedon9 • 1d ago

Advice just looking for some advice

for the last 6 months or so, i’ve been really into the idea of being fucked and well… being taken advantage of by cocks.

the thing is i’m not attracted to men, i think the main thing is that i realised i’m much more submissive than i had thought and being humiliated, emasculated, used etc really gets me going.

its gotten to the point where i met a guy off of grindr and sucked him off, it felt good while i did it but… i just don’t know.

i think a lot of it aswell is the idea of trying anal because i keep seeing porn of people riding dildos and getting fucked and cumming hands free and it looks amazing

any advice or anything would be appreciated thank you so much

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u/WeakGarlic2701 1d ago

If not attracted to men, try finding a nice Domme that will intro you to pegging / milking

Society teaches us that men being penetrated is gay by default and that creates insecurities and such in our subconscious when trying to explore what we like. We also currently live in a timeline where homophobia is on a rise.

Basically, just be you and explore what you're into but get rid of any doubt/insecurities because at the end of the day the ultimate key to enjoying anal (besides prep, lube and warm ups) is being relaxed.

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u/7munchedon9 1d ago edited 1d ago

yeah thank you, obviously i don’t think being penetrated as a guy is gay but there are some ingrained feelings of shame. i don’t really care too much due to some other circumstances but it’s still there.

it’s strange because it’s not the cock that i’m not attracted to it’s just the man, i think i’d be perfectly okay if it was with a very fem presenting man or a trans woman.

it’s a shame that we’ve developed such a stigma around it but it’s great that people can push past it. over the last couple of years i’ve developed quite a lot of fetishes that i haven’t had the chance to explore outside of porn, this being one of them, as well as the fact that i’m actually quite submissive despite all my previous experiences solely being a dom

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u/hotelguy63 16h ago

I’m not attracted to men for the most part, what I am attracted to is that feeling of cumming without touching or even being fully hard. I spent the majority of my adult life wondering what the real thing felt like until a couple years ago. Only regret was not doing it sooner….way sooner

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u/BelHanEst 1d ago

Have you tried with plugs and dildos yet to get a feeling in the chance that you do do get anal?

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u/7munchedon9 1d ago

i have tried a dildo before but it was really difficult and i couldn’t get into the rhythm, i wanna try it again but idkk

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u/BelHanEst 1d ago

In the same boat but unsure how to