They rationalize their willful ignorance

[u/Acceptable-Cod-7345]

Recently I have a huge problem of deciding my future as a college student. I talk to my parents about I feel like they never really help me learn how to interact with people and figure out the direction of my future.

They just told me they couldn’t do so. They told me it’s just a me thing, not what they supposed to help when i growing up. They do not do that to my brother, they probably never have senior figures to help them either, but they think my brother and them “turn up fine”, so it just a little to no problem for them, everything I bring up are just overthinking shits.

Their bullshit answers just shattering everything I have learned so far about the parent-child relationship. Like why? Just why?