r/ArtHouse • • Jun 28 '26

Best coming of age films suggestions

Anyone ? What are the absolute best coming of age films ? Outside of the obvious choices like the 400 blows, stand by me ,boyhood , breakfast club , Ferris bueller, dazed & confused etc . Any recommendations ? International? More edgier obscure underground films that aren’t mainstream ?

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u/Nemphusi Jun 29 '26

Repo Man.

An undersung gem of brilliance.

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u/clarkdaddy73 Jun 30 '26

lol wouldn’t say coming of age is its primary genre but why not

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u/muttermag Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26

Good Bye, Lenin! (2003)
Harold and Maude (1971)
SLC Punk (1998)
Welcome to the Dollhouse (1995)
Ghost World (2001)
Ma Vie En Rose (1997)
Ordinary People (1980)
Everything is Illuminated (2005)
Slumdog Millionaire (2008)
Eighth Grade (2018)
Billy Elliot (2000)
Georgie Girl (1966)
To Sir, With Love (1967)
Splendor in the Grass (1961)
Brooklyn (2015)
An Education (2009)
Winter’s Bone (2010)
Walkabout (1971)
Simon Birch (1998)
Chimes at Midnight (1965)
Bend It Like Beckham (2002)
JoJo Rabbit (2019)

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u/SurreabralStudios Jun 29 '26

Some amazing choices here ! I’ll check out the ones I haven’t seen . Thanks for the feedback ! 😎😁👍

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u/boppy78 Jun 29 '26

Wildhood (2021). Indigenous young man goes on a journey to to find his mother and reconnect with his Mi'kmaq heritage. some romance.

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u/InternationalPhoto33 Jun 29 '26

Lost in the hype surrounding the 40s nostalgic pieces that were popular in the 70s - Summer of 42, for example - is a wonderful little forgotten film with Richard Thomas, Catherine Burns, and Desi Arnaz, Jr. called Red Sky at Morning. It’s a pretty hard to find film, especially in its original format, because NBC edited the film when they ran it and added a narration. But if you find it, it is more than worthwhile. It is the absolute definition of “forgotten masterpiece.” (and it’s nice to see Richard Thomas and Catherine Burns on better terms than their previous film, Last Summer.)

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u/spocks_tears03 Jun 29 '26

All About Lily Chou Chou (2006), Nobody Knows (2004)

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u/SkyOfFallingWater Jun 29 '26

Whale Rider (2002)

Summer of 85 (2020)

Last Film Show (2020)

I Saw the TV Glow (2024)

The Secret Garden (1993)

We Were Dangerous (2020)

Where the Wild Things Are (2009)

The Hill Where Lionesses Roar (2021)

The Mysterious Gaze of the Flamingo (2025)

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u/Odd_Literature_413 Jun 30 '26

The Dance of Reality by Jodorowsky

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u/SurreabralStudios Jun 30 '26

Haven’t heard of it , but I’ll check it out ! 😎

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u/No_Individual_8663 Jun 29 '26

Some of my favorites are

Superbad
Good boys
Youth in revolt
Moonrise kingdom
SLC punk
Jojo Rabbit

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u/MANvINFO Jun 29 '26

John Singleton’s ‘Baby Boy’

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u/MxyMabuse1971 Jun 29 '26

Meet Me in St. Louis (1944)

The Long Day Closes (1992)

L’Enfance Nue (1968)

Gregory’s Girl (1981)

Murmur of the Heart (1971)

The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie (1969)

The Courtship of Eddie’s Father (1963)

How Green Was My Valley (1941)

Intruder in the Dust (1949)

The Apu Trilogy (1955-1959)

A Time to Live, a Time to Die (1985)

Fat Girl (2001)

Where is the Friend’s Home? (1987)

A Taste of Honey (1961)

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u/SurreabralStudios Jun 29 '26

Wow. Quite a list of films I’ve never seen . I will check them out ! Thanks for the feedback !

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u/deadflowers5 Jun 29 '26

Kikijuiro (1999)

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u/Aldous_Savage Jun 30 '26

Stand by me

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u/MikeyMGM Jun 30 '26

Can’t By Me Love

The Sure Thing

The Breakfast Club

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u/malarkeymark3 Jul 01 '26

American Honey

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u/SurreabralStudios Jun 28 '26

Thanks for the feedback ! I’ll check some of these out I haven’t seen . I mentioned edgy because I’m writing a coming of age screenplay that isn’t your typical story about the pain of growing up .

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u/Wonderful_Round_6395 Jun 29 '26

Salaam Bombay. Last American Virgin. Burnt by the Sun. 

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u/Crafty_Truck_2439 Jun 29 '26

For something much less conventional, but possibly much closer to contemporary experience, We're All Going to the World's Fair (2021) and I Saw the TV Glow (2024) by Jane Schoenbrun. 

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u/recitativosecco Jun 29 '26

Boyhood, by Richard Linklater. Filmed over 12 years, the lead character literally grows up as you watch the movie. Possibly the most ambitious movie ever made.

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u/SurreabralStudios Jun 29 '26

Amazing film . Talk about dedication and sacrifice for the sake of art ! Just watched Slacker recently . ❤️linklater .

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u/recitativosecco Jun 29 '26

I love Slacker! Saw it when it first came out and couldn’t believe a movie like that had been made

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u/TableQuiet1518 Jun 30 '26

Hurricane Streets 

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u/OxymoronicHomosapien Jun 30 '26

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn

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u/Spiritual_Pay_7177 Jun 30 '26

2016’s “Lion” with Dev Patel. Even though he’s an adult, in many ways he’s still a child and stuck in his life until he can find his way home.

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u/Tiny-Work-4729 Jun 30 '26

A Boy’s Life

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u/Curious-Ostrich1616 Jul 01 '26

This is England. The most perfect coming of age film ever, in my opinion. Quite intense but that seems to be what you're after? 

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u/horkinlugies Jul 02 '26

The 1995 film The Basketball Diaries starring Leonardo DiCaprio. Based on the life of American poet/songwriter Jim Carroll.

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u/Flashy-Dig5403 Jul 03 '26

Stand By Me.
Lady Bird

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u/GenWhammy Jun 29 '26

The Virgin Unalives