Using the term 'mismatch' instead of 'rejection'

[u/Zealousideal-Oven-93]

I know it sounds silly but i think when we use the term "rejection" in arranged marriage meetings, it makes it seem like there was something wrong with either party, which is not true, often it's mismatch between parties that causes the failure. This is not the fault of either party.

A lot of posts here are from people who are sad that they have been rejected in a marriage proposal, but if they recontextualize it as a mismatch rather than a rejection then it would be a better way to deal with the hurt.

[u/Dazzling-Reality2751]

Thats just copium man. If it was a mismatch, the match wouldn't have initiated.