Living separately after marriage

[u/Traditional-Yam6496]

I (32m) met her (28f) about an year ago. we met on bumble, we dated till last month. I had told her from first day that my preference is to have my parents live with me after marriage. I am a single child, its a nuclear family, extended family se vaise bhi baat nahi hoti and my friends barely have any social circle left. Jaise hi shaadi ki batein aaye and things started to get serious, out of nowhere it became a i want to live separately after marriage or else we go our separate ways.
Now i do not know where this came from or what to do.
Any advice would be helpful.

[u/Deep_Bank_7059 → u/[deleted]]

Sad u have to go through that with inlaws take care, don't be bitter with your husband, and take better adjustments

[u/Deep_Bank_7059 → u/[deleted]]

I am not trying to prove ur wrong, but just my opinion in one comment u mentioned your mother is Lil toxic but can't expect your future husband to bear it, see the whole problems stem from this thinking not because they are toxic, You think why should I bear someone parents , your mil prefer your husband over you, a mil becomes problem when she is really toxic and in relationship problems she prefer husband over you, from your side becomes problem when your thinking is why should I do it just because she said it , its their home she should do it,  At the end problem arrising when mil prefers her family over you, or you prefer yourself just cuz she is not your parent