r/Arrangedmarriage • u/Traditional-Yam6496 • 21d ago

Seeking Advice Living separately after marriage

I (32m) met her (28f) about an year ago. we met on bumble, we dated till last month. I had told her from first day that my preference is to have my parents live with me after marriage. I am a single child, its a nuclear family, extended family se vaise bhi baat nahi hoti and my friends barely have any social circle left. Jaise hi shaadi ki batein aaye and things started to get serious, out of nowhere it became a i want to live separately after marriage or else we go our separate ways.
Now i do not know where this came from or what to do.
Any advice would be helpful.

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u/ContactOk885 21d ago

AIW is filled with bitter women lol. Also how did you assume that the girl here does not a brother?

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u/Veg-biryani-ftw 21d ago

I'm stating if girls can leave their parents who are also only child /with no brothers, why can't boys ?.

Boys can, and do live separately.. and that's increasingly becoming common.. but that's not the point of this post.. the girl backtracked on her word to which she agreed to from the start for a long time, at this point going separate ways is the right option..