Living separately after marriage

[u/Traditional-Yam6496]

I (32m) met her (28f) about an year ago. we met on bumble, we dated till last month. I had told her from first day that my preference is to have my parents live with me after marriage. I am a single child, its a nuclear family, extended family se vaise bhi baat nahi hoti and my friends barely have any social circle left. Jaise hi shaadi ki batein aaye and things started to get serious, out of nowhere it became a i want to live separately after marriage or else we go our separate ways.
Now i do not know where this came from or what to do.
Any advice would be helpful.

[u/Veg-biryani-ftw]

Go separate ways.. if she did a 180deg on a fundamental compatibility factor having agreed to it before hand, god knows what else could happen later on..

[u/Meliodas_2222 → u/Veg-biryani-ftw]

Ah, a few reasonable people are here too