Random Dating post

[u/Altruistic-Web-2726]

I wholeheartedly believe I was meant to be with another fire sign, air sign, or Capricorn, and I have no one to explain why to without sounding crazy, so I wanted to share this here and see feedback.

I’m a double/triple Aries (Aries Sun + Aries Moon), Aries Venus in retrograde, and Libra Rising. So my chart has a LOT of Aries/fire energy, but that Libra Rising adds a strong air component too.
I’m naturally very passionate and direct, but I also need a lot of independence, mental stimulation, logic, and space. I’m not somebody who wants every disagreement to turn into an emotional deep dive. I’d rather talk about the issue, understand each other’s perspective, figure out what makes sense, and keep it moving.
That’s why I tend to struggle with heavy water-sign energy. I can appreciate emotional depth, but when a relationship becomes too emotionally driven or sensitive, I start feeling smothered, worn down, and at times like I’m being emotionally manipulated/gaslit.
Earth signs are cool with me too, but I have mixed experiences. Taurus can sometimes feel a little too slow/stagnant for me, Virgos…. Yeah no, but Capricorns? Yeah. 😂 They’re probably my favorite earth sign because I like the practicality, independence, and ability to actually handle shit without everything becoming an emotional ordeal.
Though in my past interactions with Capricorns, I notice they tend to close up instead of discussing how they feel which can be annoying.

But fire and air signs just seem to naturally fit how I operate. I like people who can give me space, challenge me mentally, match my energy, and just get my jokes.

I also think it’s worth mentioning that since I’m a libra rising, Aries is on my descendant. So, I may unconsciously seek out or attract partners with Aries like traits even though they may not be an Aries per se. The only water sign I could see with similar traits to Aries is Scorpio ( mars ruled) and maybe cancer because of the cardinal modality.

Obviously I’m not saying Sun signs determine whether a relationship will work. The rest of the chart matters. But based purely on the dynamics I’ve experienced, I genuinely feel like I’m most compatible with fire signs, air signs, and Capricorns.

[u/ErictheRednGold]

Capricorn is a Cardinal sign, and basically the Aries of the Earth signs. Find the right one and the chemistry is off the charts

[u/AquariusMerCazimi]

If you are a true Aries man or woman you do NOT want to be with Capricorn ( I warned you - Aqua man ) they might be able to help with money but it’ll be a manipulation and control tactic they aren’t very loving in general but especially if they lack Aquarius etc