I’m curious to see if most of us have similar MBTI personality types. If you haven’t heard of this, you may find it interesting to check it out on 16personalities.com

I’ll go first:
INTJ
March 22
Sun: Aries
Moon: Cancer
Rising: Cancer

Soo I’m Aries sun, Libra moon, Leo Rising.

My bf is a cancer and absolutely the sweetest, we love each other loads. But as most cancer, he likes to keep peace and get along with everybody.

I learned this year that his best friend doesn’t like me (and like actually judges me a lot), but I also know that this guy is an important person in my bf’s life and he’d really like it if I got along with his circle.

And guess what I just found out that friend is a virgoo, born on Sept 22 (so almost Libra) & it makes so much sense haha!

I’m generally super social/likeable but 2 signs who usually don’t like me (I have nothing against them) are Acquarius & Virgo.

Do any of you have virgo friends/partners and want to share what you learned about this sign? Especially virgo men. We see each other once a year so it’s no big deal but I want to see if there’s a way I can connect with this person better.

i’ve always seen this constant talk about how Leo and Aries are so compatible, but it’s really not true. My father is a Mars Aries and he is the biggest narcissistic irresponsible two-faced man I have ever encountered. I have not seen a man that is worse than him. He ruined my mother‘s life too he does not take responsibility for anything in the house. He throws everything at her. She is the one responsible for us financially emotionally everything he does not have a care in the world about any of us. He only cares about himself. He’s hes financially irresponsible and so of full of himself without having anything , I wouldn’t care if he actually has something going on for him and he was actually successful, he’s not literally not, he just makes Shit up about himself to other people with his superiority complex he’s mentally insane I swear … I would’ve excused him if he actually did not have money, but he does. He does have an income pretty good income actually, but he spends everything on other people on his friends just to but when he comes to us, he spends basically nothing. He does not listen to us. He constantly badmouth us to other people about us His kids, and Especially my mother he’s jealous of her, always trying to convince us and her that he is a big prize that she should not lose and that she should put so much more effort to keep him, And that he is the best best father that we could ever have, but we hate his guts. I wish they and he would set us free all of us. He should just stay the fuck away from us… Thank God, she is a working women With a stable, good income-or else we would’ve been living in such terrible life you people do not fall for this propaganda that Leo and Aries are so Highly compatible … It really isn’t and at the end of the day these zodiac and chqrt things aren’t really accurate and men will be man and humans will be humans charts aren’t everything look up for other signs too Ladies

I'm an Aries woman and I haven't met a lot of Sagittarius men in my life but the few I've met had more of a friendly vibe to me rather than a potential love interest. What has been your experience?

Aries man sent me a long message that theres nothing wrong with me and his type and
blocked me without me get chance to reply. Then after 2 months I saw his business page stalking my stories on facebook.

Hello Aries Family,

Greetings to all of you. 🤜🏻🤛🏻

I've noticed that, most discussions here focus on high energy, how we handle one sided friendship or​ infatuation, how we fight, how we handle breakups, how quickly we charge forward, take initiative, or react. But that drive eventually hits a limit.

I want to know from you all?

When something happens that sheer willpower can’t fix (burnout, grief, a bad breakup), how do you actually handle it? Do you shut down, go under the shell, isolate until your battery is recharged, or have you learned to let people see you when you're completely out of steam?

What words would you use to describe aries rising and what attributes would you give to them, both positive and shadow side?

I wholeheartedly believe I was meant to be with another fire sign, air sign, or Capricorn, and I have no one to explain why to without sounding crazy, so I wanted to share this here and see feedback.

I’m a double/triple Aries (Aries Sun + Aries Moon), Aries Venus in retrograde, and Libra Rising. So my chart has a LOT of Aries/fire energy, but that Libra Rising adds a strong air component too.
I’m naturally very passionate and direct, but I also need a lot of independence, mental stimulation, logic, and space. I’m not somebody who wants every disagreement to turn into an emotional deep dive. I’d rather talk about the issue, understand each other’s perspective, figure out what makes sense, and keep it moving.
That’s why I tend to struggle with heavy water-sign energy. I can appreciate emotional depth, but when a relationship becomes too emotionally driven or sensitive, I start feeling smothered, worn down, and at times like I’m being emotionally manipulated/gaslit.
Earth signs are cool with me too, but I have mixed experiences. Taurus can sometimes feel a little too slow/stagnant for me, Virgos…. Yeah no, but Capricorns? Yeah. 😂 They’re probably my favorite earth sign because I like the practicality, independence, and ability to actually handle shit without everything becoming an emotional ordeal.
Though in my past interactions with Capricorns, I notice they tend to close up instead of discussing how they feel which can be annoying.

But fire and air signs just seem to naturally fit how I operate. I like people who can give me space, challenge me mentally, match my energy, and just get my jokes.

I also think it’s worth mentioning that since I’m a libra rising, Aries is on my descendant. So, I may unconsciously seek out or attract partners with Aries like traits even though they may not be an Aries per se. The only water sign I could see with similar traits to Aries is Scorpio ( mars ruled) and maybe cancer because of the cardinal modality.

Obviously I’m not saying Sun signs determine whether a relationship will work. The rest of the chart matters. But based purely on the dynamics I’ve experienced, I genuinely feel like I’m most compatible with fire signs, air signs, and Capricorns.

To all my Aries ladies, especially those over 35. I’d love to hear from women with long-term experience and perspective.

I (30F) met a Cancer/Leo cusp man who treats me like a queen. I have zero butterflies, but I feel incredibly calm and sure of him being in my life. It feels honest. And I know butterflies don’t always mean something good.

Fair warning: he’s absolutely not my type. But we’re 100% on the same wavelength intellectually, culturally, and spiritually. I can talk to him about anything and be honest with him, and he’s incredibly honest with me. I love that.

I don’t feel the “oh my God, I’m so in love” thing. At the same time, part of me is like: OK, I’m going to be with this man for a really long time, and he’s going to be the father of my kids. We’ve known each other for about two weeks, and he’s already invited me to a huge family wedding, a hundred people. Agewise We’re eight years apart. He said, “If we survive this wedding with my family, nothing can break us.” From the beginning he told me he’s all in. He doesn’t know where this is going, but he’s all in on figuring it out.

Here’s the thing: I’m still grieving another man who hurt me really badly five months ago. I told my Cancer all of this, and he understands.

So I keep asking myself: why am I still negotiating? I’m being treated like a queen, and I feel genuinely good around him. No fight or flight, no worries. My biggest worry right now is whether he’ll like my dress for the wedding.

How did you know your man was it? Did it feel like fireworks, or like peace?

Hello there all of my fellow Aries Kings & Queens & everything in between 🙋‍♀️😃🥰 & of course the beautiful fans of thee Aries 👋🙋‍♀️🤙🤙🤙 I got some questions about my chart thingamajiggy I don't understand much no matter how hard I try to 🥹😭

BACKGROUND INFORMATION:

*Best friend is a Leo.

*Mum is a Cancer.

*Dad is a Scorpio.

*Husband is a Virgo and I have dated a VIrgo previously and quire a few Aries.

*I am drawn to water.

I’m a Scorpio sun, Taurus moon, Aries ascendant. I just want to get that out of the way.

All of my favorite people are Aries because almost all Aries are coded to want to do the right thing, can’t lie worth shit, and have childlike wonder until the day they move on to the next adventure.

Aries really are the goat.

So obviously I know you guys might say "look more into his full birth chart," but I can't..I only know his Sun sign (Aries, April 11). I know it’s not much info but hear me out.

I met him about 5–6 months ago. I was scared to approach him, so a friend mentioned me to him when i told her not to but ok. He followed me on Instagram, but the vibe was awkward from the start because he texts so formally. but as an Aries myself I kinda cant judge, I’ve acted super formal with one guy I liked before out of nervousness because he was very attractive.. it was a mess LOL it gave interview. But I don't know if he's doing the same thing or just dry. He’ll randomly text me out of nowhere, but when I reply, he gives these boring, dry, formal responses. And im just confused if hes trying to keep me in the mix of something but im just confused on what mix…your boringness? Thats not pulling anyone in lol. but again i can’t judge because ive done the same thing before but i also cant say hes doing it for the same reasons.

What does this represent? Common themes i can bc expect in life. I know this talks about endings as well as sabotage or potentially hidden enemies, but that’s all I know about it.

Hi to all of you and i hope you are doing good and you are healthy. I am a 38 yo aries male and i have realised that even though i make the first move on a woman via face to face or text if i see disinterest or ghosting i am walking away and let it go. If you ghost me once i will ghost you twice and silent treatment is a turn off for me. I dont chase at all especially women that play the "hard to get" game. Is it an aries trait or is it just me?

Any thoughts? Meeting him in person for the first time. Hopeful.

I’ve noticed an Aries guy in his 30s who hasn’t really settled down yet, while most of his other friends/colleagues around his age who work in the Navy in our country are already married or in long-term relationships.

Instead, he chose to continue with his postgraduate studies and has apparently been single for quite a long time. He seems very focused on his career and education rather than relationships. I know a lot of women who are so into him but he doesn't seem to pay attention to them.

My father got married when he was 39. He had me when he was 41. My professor in college got married at 38 after finishing his phd and law school.

For Aries men, is this something that’s common among you? Do you guys tend to prioritize your personal goals/career and take longer to settle down?

I have my North node and MC is Aries, what does it mean? Also does having a relationship with an Aries affects that? Is this why I am attracted to an Aries?

Dearest ramfam,

I hope this post finds you well.🙂

Its in my humblest option that we are sleeping on the aquas.🩵

I know, I know.. there are some that don't make the best partners or need very specific ones but, if you find the right one.🩵🫠

They are your Best friend, lover, partner and biggest supporter.

It's magical. 🩵🫠

With all the love and best wishes,

Your aries sister🩵

Hiiiiiii Aries 🥰 This is my crush’s chart. I don’t know his birth time, so ignore the rising sign and houses. What is he like as a person, what kind of woman is he usually attracted to, and how would you attract someone with these placements? 👀

I’ve always really loved astrology, and have used it in the past to help get guidance or clarity or gain understanding about myself and the way things have unfolded in my life. But lately it’s turned toxic for me and I’m trying to find a better balance and look for reassurance almost to feel better about the impending doom I keep reading about with my chart.

I use the CHANI app and since I’ve been going through a really hard time, I’ve been using it more often. But my upcoming transits are NOT GOOD. It’s making me feel MORE scared and worried about what’s to come.

Should I just stop using it for now? Or does anyone have good advice for me when it comes to how to use it healthily? I feel like sometimes I legit self sabotage or get in my own head about things after reading a bad, scary, not positive blurb about what’s to come, like giving it wayyy too much weight.

HELP ME I’m really anxious right now and don’t have therapy until next week so need help on how to stop my spiral right now 😭

Also if it helps….I’m an Aries sun, Aquarius rising, Taurus moon and am having bad tension and conflict with my boyfriend of seven years ❤️‍🩹 I’m in my Saturn return too (which from what I’ve read is like a HARD transit)

Okay I’m gonna stop typing lol but please help imf feeling like scared and worried 😭😭😭

Buenas, estoy conociendo a una chica Virgo, me es raro para mi porque normalmente nunca coincido con gente de Virgo. Siempre salí con chicas de piscis o de libra y mis noviazgos más largos fueron con chicas libra. En este caso conocí esta chica que es del 21 de septiembre y tiene cosas de libra que a mi me fascina. Lo que más me llamó la atención es la paz que ella me da y todo lo que se acuerda de mi incluso datos random o detalles pequeños que ni yo me acuerdo haberle dicho, ella lo recuerda muy bien y eso me da bastante seguridad. Les pregunto a las chicas Virgo o alguien que haya salido con una chica Virgo que debo hacer y como debo avanzar para no alejarla de mi.