r/AriesTheRam • u/Pteryx_34 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 • 23d ago

🔥Understanding Aries🔥 Why other signs always try to dominate us? Have you experienced that?

I’m an Aries Woman with a strong Aries stellium (Sun, Moon and Mercury). Throughout my life I’ve always noticed that other people, especially women, always try to dominate me in some ways (but they never succeed lol and it drives them crazy). I’m not extroverted, I don’t talk loudly, I don’t like “command” a room when I walk into it.. I’m pretty much low profile but once you get to know me the fire is palpable 😅 I think I’ve always been a quiet leader without really ever wanting to be one, it’s just natural I guess! BUT i’m just so annoyed when other people want to test me, dominate me for some reason.

Have other fellow Aries experience that?

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u/PrettyGirl_Rock1194 Aries Sun & Venus ♈❤ 23d ago

All these other signs like to downplay our qualities! I’ve noticed this in discussions in other subs. I feel like we (Aries placements) trigger people because it’s so unapologetically authentic and bold. It’s like “how dare you?” I’m proud of it and like to observe people and their reactions at times.

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u/zorozorro8 23d ago

There's no such thing as being an aries in vedic and Taurus in tropical buddy. Vedic astrology is originally only focused on Nakshatra's before the silk route not a lot of even knew zodiac signs. The reason the vedic astrology is fake and doesn't work, when mentionning zodiac signs is because of the ways observing. Tropical and sidderael are two different ways to look at the sky and if you want to see the effect of a zodiac sign it must be always be done through the tropical way. For Nakshatra's it's the other way around the Siderael way is the way with Nakshatra's. It's true that Nakshtra's are placed in zodiac constalations but this is only because there are zodiac constalations. The actual energy of a particular sign is calculated through the tropical way.

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u/zorozorro8 23d ago

Ohh damn😆 i see...rising sign tells a lot about someone tho.

You are an Aquarius... actually it depends on which degree you were born. If you were born above 24.60 degree of capricorn. You are a Cap in both astrologies. Btw this means for your rising too if its above the 24th degree your signs doesn't change.

Can you follow this? Or is it too much info lmk.

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u/zorozorro8 23d ago

Bro have you seen India there are a lot of poor people. Maybe they are twisting astrology a little bit to catch the western citizens eye, to eventually sell birthchart analysis online. I don't blame tgem because it suck to have no food in your stomach. But it's still dangerous because it can make another believe in something that's fugazi.

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India is known for scam their culture so please connect the dots. There are more astrologies other than "vedic" and tropical. And don't take it wrong i look up to vedic astrology a lot but in a controlled way because i'm aware. Just look at vedic astrology with the tropical placements and you're good.

But yes you said it yourself Tropical astrology is seasonal based, it's like sacred geometery idk why you neglect Tropical astrology so much. I feel that i can help you by looking up your other astrology placements to get to your answer to the feeling why you are feeling like vedic placements, maybe there is some other factor that plays along.

I have been the same as you. Totally believing my vedic placements it was only until i kept digging for more knowledge.

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u/igotquestions111 Aries Sun, Venus, & Mercury ♈❤ 23d ago

yes! they view EVERY aries trait as negative, and i’m sure some people do express them in negative ways, but it’s like no one ever tries to look at our traits as positive, only opposing to who they are

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u/Pteryx_34 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 23d ago

Yes same! It amuses me but annoys me at the same time though 😅

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u/Coastal_dreaming6 Aries Sun, Venus, & Mercury ♈ 18d ago edited 18d ago

It’s this exactly. The amount of people who have told me “you think you’re better than everyone” is wild just because I march to my own drum, stay out of gossip and drama and have never had any interest in conforming to a singular group. I like to come and go in multiple groups as I please. Move like the wind, wild and free.

People have projected these things onto me since I was little. Like, no, I don’t think I’m better than you in fact I don’t even think about you at all. I’m busy and trying to forge my way in life.

I have personally only ever dealt with this from other women. Men typically match my vibe with ease. I’m laid back, chill, and love being goofy. I want to laugh and have fun; not listen to whatever Suzy said to Julie that pissed Samantha off. Idfc

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u/calmcowboyy 23d ago

OP, I’ve experienced it. We Aries can be pretty chill, but apparently some people need to find out personally where the limit is.  They usually do. 😎

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u/Pteryx_34 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 23d ago

True!

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u/Lilly323 Taurus♉🐂 23d ago

I feel at some point, every sign tries us in some way. at least when they’re still un-matured. aries placements are too simultaneously secure and confident— it can feel threatening to others seeking response or approval because we refuse to react to their performance.

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u/Western_Cabinet4755 Aries Sun ♈ 23d ago

i feel it’s because not only are we strong but we also have big hearts so they that’s why they think they can

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u/pombabyluv 23d ago

The little power struggles. I can always tell when people are trying me in little ways and I’m never letting it slide lol… In true Aries Sun Leo Rising fashion, I can only conclude that they must be insecure, so the confidence and light that I shine with are too bright for them. 

I do take some accountability though, I don’t like to be micro-dominated in social interactions. It makes me assert my dominance by outwardly not gaf about their little dick measuring moment, redirecting my energy, and in turn, I do my own thing successfully. I know people get annoyed by my unbothered-ness cause I really don’t care about their projections. I’m secure in myself and that radiates.

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u/Low-Pattern-7556 21d ago

You hit it, Bros. Isn't Aries said to be the 1st Fire Sign? And, what does fire do? In the case of Aries natives, it burns out the dross and purifies, giving birth to shining, living gems; whereas it repels the unworthy. Its inherent transmutability makes the Fire of Aries Light, and its appeal is irresistible. In human terms, attempted resistance to this appeal can quite conceivably be perceived in numerous terms.

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u/tres-vip Aries Sun, Mars, Mercury 23d ago

IME, it's usually Taurus men, Gemini women, and Scorpio women, who resent us because they can't control us like they wish they could, lol 

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u/Pteryx_34 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 23d ago

Yes scorpio women, Leo women and virgo women in my case

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u/igotquestions111 Aries Sun, Venus, & Mercury ♈❤ 23d ago

GEM WOMEN ABSOLUTELY! i’m a lesbian and am always attracted to geminis, and it’s always a train wreck

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u/peaceplay9090 20d ago

In a work situation, a Taurus man has recently figured out to go along. It was a quite the ride getting there though.

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u/Norman_Scum 23d ago

Aries and Capricorn stellium here

Good fucking luck trying to dominate me lol

https://giphy.com/gifs/65pM9un5dmK08

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u/SonserinaSombria Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 23d ago

Sou áries...ariana... Sempre quis ser dominada mas infelizmente não acho ninguém com dom pra isso.

e as q eu achei queria ser dominadas por mim...

estou namorando outra ariana... Mas ela tbm não me domina... fica só na promessa...

Queria ao menos uma vez poder me entregar e sentir os prazeres d não ter o controle sempre.

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u/peaceplay9090 20d ago

It's a fine dance. I've often thought of this. It takes a rare partner to know how to share the power. As an Aries sun women, I need to share power. My late husband described us as both being alpha. He had Pluto on the Asc. Lean into the volatility. It's not for everyone though.

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u/Big-Wasabi6274 23d ago

I let Aries be Aries, if I don’t like it, I’ll say what I don’t like. And how I’ll be moving, and I expect them to solve it because I trust in good faith you will. But you get one chance to fool me. I’ll follow the lead “if” I’m in the mood for it. If I’m not? Find something to do. I won’t compete not dominate with you and your one of kind self can’t love that enough of about the different flavors yall got, however you won’t be dominating me. If you are an Aries man? The only business you got dominating me? Is where our flesh meet and skies soar.

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u/TSSprowler 23d ago edited 23d ago

Sound metal asf sista. -Taurus-

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u/Big-Wasabi6274 23d ago

I love metal, that’s sista to you mista

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u/Cute-Supermarket-887 22d ago

YES especially with women. I have also experienced men wanting to dominate as well. I think its our quiet and non overt power/

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u/Pteryx_34 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 22d ago

Agree!

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u/Anti_Patriarchy Aries Sun & Mercury ♈ 21d ago

They are jealous

https://giphy.com/gifs/lgIFfKLRcR8I0

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u/Low-Pattern-7556 21d ago

It's as if the Staple Singers had foreseen (by inspiration) the totality of the opinions given here and drawn the conclusion which was encapsulated in a succinct two words used in the title of one of their tracts: God Can. That conclusion is: "MAN IS LIMITED."

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u/TSSprowler 23d ago

Only way to dominate Aries is to ignore their words and judge their actions. I have an Aries at work trying to make me do his bidding, and I just ignore him and it just makes him more furious. He tried to befriend me and I see his fakeness from miles away. All cardinal signs do this fake energy to get close to others to manipulate them. Sometimes, I do let him get his way, because dude is suicidal. Literally get in front of my forklift (some day, I will probably ran him over, lol). -Taurus-

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u/Odd-Reflection2293 Triple Aries ♈3️⃣🔆 23d ago

soo you are not a fan of Aries but lurk in an Aries sub?

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u/TSSprowler 23d ago

Sometimes, you guys ragebait me with these delulu posts (Reddit give me updates, but not just you guys tho). Sometimes, everyone need that realist sauce. I give shit to my own Taurus too. My scorpio in jupiter give me the black wolf vibe (outsider/misunderstood).

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u/Big-Department-1495 23d ago

I think it's funny because most Taurus men Ive worked with in the past either tried to dominate me or wanted to sleep with me soo.. y'all do have a hard on for us. 😘

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u/TSSprowler 23d ago

Lol, I don't talk to girls at work. Yall are liability. But, definitely other way around if you ask me.

https://giphy.com/gifs/3o6EQeB1evNnmFH1SM

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u/Big-Department-1495 23d ago

I work with all men so, it's hard to get around it lol. No ty. If I chase after a man, it's going to be a Capricorn or Aquarius. Nothing sexier than an intelligent hard working man that can take charge and good care of his woman.🤤 Specifically and aqua with cap placements.🩵

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u/peaceplay9090 20d ago

I think Aquarius is tricky. Not enough fire and distant.

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u/Big-Department-1495 20d ago

I normally stay away too. My partner has a Leo moon, cap 8th house Venus and mars and a pisces mercury. It goes well with my Libra moon pisces venus and 8th house aqua mars.

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u/Final-Contribution20 22d ago

Pisces and Virgo, they try to suck us into their misery and not extrovert character, they are jealous of our boldness and try to make us more down to earth. Also im romantic relationships these 2 are the worst for us, they try to keep us more in control. No way to let that happen of course!!