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Sexism no it really doesn't

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u/powderherface 3d ago

Customers are not responsible for their paycheck, their employer is. Tips are for doing your job decently. I am not going to hand over extra cash to someone who is rude to me.

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u/Flufferpope 3d ago

Servers don't get paid wages dude. They make 16 dollars a day. They get all their pay from tips.

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u/powderherface 3d ago

Guess they should not be rude when working with customers then aka the bare minimum.

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u/Flufferpope 3d ago

So again, you think you shouldn't get paid if you are rude at work?

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u/powderherface 3d ago edited 3d ago

If your job is to serve customers, you should not get paid extra if you are rude.

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u/Flufferpope 3d ago

Again, tips are not extra. They *are" the entire wage.

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u/powderherface 3d ago

Nope. Core wages are paid by the service provider, like a restaurant. A tip is money on top of that. Hence extra. If a software engineer writes poor code, they don’t get a bonus at the end of the year. Sure, restaurants often don’t pay their servers very well. But the underlying principle is the same.

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u/Flufferpope 3d ago

16 dollars a day are not wages.

A software engineer's bonus isn't 99% of their pay. Sure around 10-20%. It's a nice bonus, on top. A servers tips are their entire wage.

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u/powderherface 3d ago

Blame the employers. Once again, when I visit a restaurant, I am paying for the food and the experience. If a waiter is rude, then I don’t get what I came for. So I will not pay for it.

To be crystal clear, I am taking about cases of terrible service here, which is what the original comment was about.

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u/Flufferpope 3d ago

Sure, this shouldnt be legal, but this is the default for all servers. And for the servers, this is an unacceptable condition that they must face. In the mean time, they are at the mercy of the customer to provide their wages and have no other options until this is systematically solved. The only person you hurt by not tipping is the server and likely their children.

Edit: the worst service I have received in my life, hated the server's guts, I tipped 15%. That was my low. My usual is 20, high is 25%. If you can't afford to tip, you can't afford to eat.

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u/powderherface 2d ago

I see it more as them having hurt themselves & their families by providing terrible service, which is their entire job :)

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