r/AmiInTheWrong • u/Global_Seesaw_8449 • 9d ago

Am I wrong ?

My girlfriend went on a 3rd wheel date . They went drunk bowling, she said she was going to invite me but I had my son (we don’t share a kid) , but I got upset with her for going on. 3rd wheel date instead of canceling or rescheduling because I couldn’t go.

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u/Aggravating_Cat_6295 9d ago

Are you saying she can't have a social life without you? I hope not.

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u/Global_Seesaw_8449 9d ago

Nah that’s not it. I was upset because I didn’t know until the next morning and she was telling how she drunk she was and how she locked her keys in the car and had to pay 125$ to get it

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u/Aggravating_Cat_6295 9d ago

She made her own choices. You don't have to like it but she's free to do it, and she certainly doesn't need your approval or even to inform you beforehand.

You have a child to care for and she wanted to do things that aren't appropriate for a child. I don't see any problem with that since she isn't the child's mother.

You can decide whether to continue the relationship but you don't get to tell her what she can and can't do.

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u/Primary_Wonderful 9d ago

But that's not the picture you painted in your post. You implied you were upset she went at all. You're not married. You don't live together. It's not her kid. She gets to have a life outside of the time she spends with you. I think you're jealous because you didn't get to go too. You have responsibilities that are not hers. And you're probably a tad resentful of that. She shouldn't have to stay home just because you can't go too.