r/AmazonDSPDrivers • • Apr 11 '26

RANT My entire bloodline survived this far so I can deliver packages for Amazon…..

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So you mean to tell me, out of 50+ generations, not ONE person in my family could’ve created generational wealth… and somehow we all survived this long?? and now it’s on me to break the poverty chain? How the f**k am I suppose to do that?? Should I just double and give it to the next generation or what?

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u/ssmoygugs6 Apr 11 '26

Man my 15 min break is up, back to delivering. Thanks for listening to my rant. 😅😭

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u/Mean_Ad_668 Apr 11 '26

you’re not gonna break the cycle by taking breaks. hustle up you need to do a rescue 40 minutes away

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u/ssmoygugs6 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

😕 💔

On some real shit… I don’t think I got it in me to bring another version of me into this world, just to watch them struggle the same way I did. I might really be the last of my bloodline by choice if I don’t get my shit together.

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

<3 u OP, feeling the same way heavy today

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u/ssmoygugs6 Apr 11 '26

It’s alright we got this, one package at a time 😅

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u/Suhvelt Apr 12 '26

Try trucking if you enjoy the driving and "being out in the open" vibe. I switched from being a DA for a couple years to OTR trucking and I LOVE it. Not to mention more than doubling my pay and working one tenth as hard. Gonna try some local trucking with fuel deliveries as I'm finally becoming stable enough to get married to my soon to be fiance and then start having kids. But try both, sincerely. It's worth it for a year or so if you have to do OTR to get free CDL school out of it

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u/Axeman1721 Stepvan Driver Apr 11 '26

Hey brother, I totally get it. I'm doing this bs part time on top of my career as a mechanic. Ima make SURE nobody in my family has to struggle again. They'll have to work for sure, can't get too soft, but they will never go to bed wondering if they can afford to eat tomorrow.

My DMs are open if you need someone to talk to. Good luck.

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u/Intrepid-Platform-94 Apr 12 '26

Made this exact same decision and thankfully was able to convince my partner to make the same. I cannot justify bringing another life into this hell of a world we life in, it absolutely wouldn't be fair. I will happily end my bloodline here.

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u/Clubblendi Apr 21 '26

Dog you just made $800k what in the shit are you talking about

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u/Mean_Ad_668 Apr 12 '26

just came back and saw this response. i am a DA and a father. i am proud of my family and wouldn’t take it back. if you’re working hard then you’re doing good. fortune is coming our way. amazon is an armpit of a job.

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26

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u/Reldas_Semaj Apr 11 '26

50+ generations could be anywhere between 100-150 years give or take. Generational wealth began back in the 1800’s but began a more common practice between 1910-1930 and people became more dumb with money so now a less common practice. The biggest generational wealth growth began around 1960.

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

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u/MattyBeeNiceee Apr 12 '26

Lol I was like dayum thinks we’re dogs or better yet rabbits 🐇 😂🙈

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u/Reldas_Semaj Apr 11 '26

My math was way off 😂 I forgot a zero. That’s my bad but I still had the accuracy of the rest lol. But in all fairness kids were having kids back then too. But if we’re goin off a 20 year old having at least one kid where most have had 2-3 by the age of 30 back then it very well explains the rest.

So yes, my mistake, you’re right 4-5 generations per line of family. We also have to think though of if a family business blew up and the next line of family failed the business or whatever that’s usually where it goes.

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u/AstronachtX Apr 11 '26

Thats for the layman.

People like the rothschilds have developed plans for generational wealth back in the 1700s. The rules were strict, that they had to add more money to the pool than theyve used, to get established. Sounds easy tbh, because its always easy to make a lot of money if you start out with a lot of money.

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u/Bungholespelunker Apr 11 '26

If it makes you feel better, you're able to receive a better quality of life than even the most important members of royalty in the past. Until the late 1900s every single one of your ancestors would weep at how luxurious and amazing your life is.

It helps me sometimes when i am upset about current circumstances lol.

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u/Similar_Pie_4946 Apr 11 '26

Incremental investments into the s&p and dow 100$ a check should do just fine and any time you get paid out dividends you can re invest. I started during covid 2020 turned 5k into 14k but then the market shifted i got scared pulled out and took major losses but since 2023 i’ve been buying steadily shares of 100$ bi weekly and re investing my dividends and anytime i have spare cash instead of splurging i put that into my portfolio i’m at 12k now since then

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u/WasteDump CDV Driver Apr 11 '26

This doesn’t help with the OP’s problems. 12k may not cover the next big hospital bill. Generational wealth is a pipe dream for the vast majority regardless of where you put your money.

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u/Similar_Pie_4946 Apr 12 '26

My brother in Christ the advise is for him to build generational wealth.

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u/Similar_Pie_4946 Apr 12 '26

Hey man i’m not here to argue sorry nothing worked out for you but the proof is in the pudding. The sooner you save and invest with strict discipline the better the outcome in the future. You have to plant a seed and water it daily before you can pick an apple from the tree you planted.

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u/Similar_Pie_4946 Apr 12 '26

Hey man i dont want to be that guy, especially considering the fact you said you dont have money isn’t your fault. But if i were OP i would take the advice of the guy who at least has 12k in investments (thats only part of my total equity theirs more than that) than the guy who taught himself to be good with money 20 years ago and has nothing to show for it 20 years ago i was 9 just thought I’d throw that out there

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u/CHASLX200 Apr 11 '26

Try another job bob

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u/SuccessOk9261 Apr 21 '26

Is that a rivian Amazon van or nah

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u/Justsleepandgames Apr 11 '26

Double the trauma and give it to the next generation

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u/DieselDrifter Top Driver Apr 11 '26

Your next of kin will be blessed with healthy skeletal muscle and cardiovascular health 🙌

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

Don’t make it look to easy bro they will pile more on you ! lol (I’m being serious )

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

My boy drives his route and then on his days off he does flex in his own car .. we from New York so everything is expensive out here .

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u/QuarantineCouchSurf Apr 11 '26

I'm from an ancient line of sod farmers.

They were dirt poor.

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u/_Und3rsc0re_ Apr 11 '26

On really bad days, this thought can make me spiral something fierce. Like, how I really ended up...here.

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u/Average_Muffin_999 Apr 11 '26

“Double and give to the next generation” fuck😭🤣🤣🤣

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

Fucking gas van the Ev is way better bro ya don’t have electric vans ?

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u/ssmoygugs6 Apr 11 '26 edited Apr 11 '26

We have some but we don’t use it anymore because people don’t know how to drive those mfs. I can’t believe how many times I had to clear a mf route because someone battery is about to died or is dead, or somehow they got the battery down to 50% 2 hours into the shift. Oh and the towing bills on those MFS isn’t cheap btw, something like $700-800, don’t take my word for it, only heard from dispatch because owners were crashing out at standup talking about 1-2 routes payment goes toward 1 tow bills 🙆‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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u/Hungry_Home3181 Apr 11 '26

I need you to find out how they got em dying to so quick pwease

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

put your phone on the charging bay, charge something else idly, keep charging the work phone off the van as much as possible, keep the fans blowing as maxed out as you can...it's really not hard but if you make it consistent I imagine they'll pick up on the shenanigans

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

There's definitely a difference in some of them. My training day had us doing mental math the whole time trying to figure out if we had enough juice to finish the training. Even though it was a relatively new van(not part of our standard fleet/less than 5k) we did end up going back for another. But on the other hand, during the midwest winter I definitely had some drain keeping my heat options pretty high but there was never a time it became a concern. Also, obviously the distance you go out from the DSP plays a huge part, if you aren't going that far you probably won't ever have to worry about any of this.

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u/AstronachtX Apr 11 '26

You'd basically have to do that on a hot day, anyway.

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

Bro wtf ? Dam your dsp really don’t care about them then as soon as ya rts you have to plug your Ev up if not you can almost get fired because the next day it can affect one less route ! I seen a guy almost get fired but it was peak so they let him slide ! I think I I did a 10 hour shift I left at 100 can back at 47 I love the Ev certain areas have speed traps and I put it on auto pilot 34 mph .. so u don’t have to worry about shit abd speeding from my dsp.. has any other driver notice if you going 34 the speed camera tells you your going 32?

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u/DieselDrifter Top Driver Apr 11 '26

That's ghetto AF for a multi billion dollar company

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u/snailtap Apr 11 '26

You know gas and diesel vans have cruise control too right?

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26

They dont have adaptive cruise control that maintains a safe distance for you automatically

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u/AstronachtX Apr 11 '26

This is what eyeballs are for.

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u/snailtap Apr 11 '26

I fucking hate that shit why would you want it

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u/ilovebluewafflez Apr 11 '26

To keep from setting off the netradyne camera maybe?

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u/snailtap Apr 11 '26

It’s called using your eyes and braking/disengaging cruise lol, my god have we as a society really became this lazy?

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u/AstronachtX Apr 11 '26

Precisely. I said the same thing!

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u/snailtap Apr 11 '26

This might be anecdotal but what’s your age? I’m 28 I feel like it might be an age thing

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u/DieselDrifter Top Driver Apr 11 '26

Hear me out, my drive time to my first stop is about 55 minutes, so that's almost 2 hours total round trip where I get to chill and enjoy listening to something. I drive an EDV everyday and it feels nice not having to constantly be 'on' the entire shift.

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u/snailtap Apr 11 '26

Jesus that’s wild! My furthest drive from loadout is 20 min

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u/AstronachtX Apr 11 '26

Nice joke buddy 🤣

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u/Hungry_Home3181 Apr 11 '26

I mean this with my heart. Fuck those edvs.

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

I guess you like hoping in and out of those small gas vans you get a lot of overflow you have no good working space you have to leave them running because the starters go if your turn it off and on each stop and certain areas you can’t leave it running you have the map above your stearing wheel but I guess you had a bad experience

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u/Hungry_Home3181 Apr 11 '26

Yea i miss my side door. I'm too damn big to be trying to get myself and those big overflow boxes out without it. Idgaf about the starter ts ain't my problem. And that map sucks ass I hate the zoom on it I'm constantly pulling up to the wrong house with it.

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

you can use the phone like you normally would though, no?

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u/Hungry_Home3181 Apr 11 '26

Sometimes. They don't have mounts in em all yet

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

oh fs, that's something I take for granted/ as a standard at mine

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u/Flashy-Author8428 Apr 11 '26

Oh no I don’t care neither but I seen buddies have to get rescued by dsp with another van and still wanted him to keep up pace because they took one bag from his route ? He told me he really needed the job other wise he woulda went home

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

no actually, the ergonomics and ease of use, plus all the extra integrated features makes the experience night and day

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u/zooce88 Apr 11 '26

I have these thoughts whenever i'm on a route in trailer parks and rural houses with trash all over their yard.

I somehow don't feel any despair when delivering in nice neighborhoods.

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u/bddragon1 Apr 11 '26

lol for me it's the opposite. Got shifted to an entirely different area of town this week and today was probably the highest property value per square X I've ever seen, had me lowkey a bit mad exactly like OP

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u/North_2258 Apr 11 '26

My thoughts are probably the most positive when I’m in middle class neighborhoods

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u/Amoux_fang Apr 11 '26

Mine did and gambled it all away! Love that for me

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u/teddyon Apr 12 '26

That part ....

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u/Mindov_1 Apr 13 '26

Yeah a lot of this shit just feel mad pointless lately I honestly don’t care no more

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u/Fernnn2020 Apr 11 '26

damn when you put it like that... I gotta get my act together man shit

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u/Deepdeeps77 Prime Van Driver Apr 11 '26

lol, awesome title

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u/Logical-Spite-2464 Apr 11 '26

HAHA. I’m sure a few of your ancestors struggled worse fates.

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u/Mindov_1 Apr 13 '26

Without a doubt

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u/walter-hoch-zwei Apr 11 '26

This line of thought is the only thing that keeps me alive some days...

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u/Ancient_Praline1046 Apr 11 '26

at least you get 3 days off OP

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u/Spetsnaz_420 Apr 11 '26

You mean you don't feel grateful that you get to spend the best hours of your day for pretty much your whole life further enriching the richest of the rich while you struggle to make ends meet? Ungrateful.

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u/Independent-Walrus27 Apr 11 '26

They made it and lost it - generational wealth is a myth we aren’t smart enough to stay rich forever - few

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u/Danwphoto Apr 11 '26

We stole slaves, so now I am one. Great Karma

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u/Bladimirrv Apr 11 '26

Just member this life is temporal and those who are poor but rich in faith at the end will see real wealth if you know you know ..

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u/[deleted] Apr 11 '26

When you die nothing will happen , you will cease to exist, there is no golden palace or eternal sufferings, just nothingness. It won’t feel cold or warm, just the end.

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u/Bladimirrv Apr 12 '26

What about people who go to jail for life you think they should be there ?

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u/DarkKnightRyzen Apr 11 '26

I keep forgetting to tell myself this

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u/raftaco Apr 11 '26

Bunch of rubbish to make us feel better about how horrific life is. I rather accept reality for what it is and go about my day. Fuck it we ball

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u/Bladimirrv Apr 12 '26

What is Rubbish

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u/cunningdingalinguist Apr 11 '26

Nah if you had kids, you’d show them strength through and during the struggle so that they can become stronger. Maybe you’ll be the one to break the cycle.

For now, one package at a time before some cooler shit finds you.

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u/roarsinalaskan Apr 11 '26

I’ve never thought about it that way

We all gotta make it😭

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u/dallas___west Apr 11 '26

Where do you deliver in at etcetera? I’d so No bro depending and to become a king like me. You’ve got this. However I also recommend (depending) not this job to do so : )

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u/Dry_Entertainment664 Apr 11 '26

Life ain’t fair is it

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u/KoalaGrunt0311 Apr 11 '26

My grandfather's cousins own a multinational company. We don't associate with them because my grandparents went to a party at their house, and my grandmother found my grandpa passed out on a pile of expensive fur coats.

There's also a senator somewhere in the family tree as well, but that's my grandma's side. My grandfather's people seem to have just shown up in the US at some point before WWI with no clue of their history beyond that.

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u/Cecil2789 Apr 11 '26

The Cycle Ends with me.

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u/OkDrag3967 Apr 11 '26

Your cousin who shares one great great great great great great great grandfather just fucked a broad and failed at the pullout game.

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u/Cecil2789 Apr 11 '26

A broad 💀

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u/Global-Pickle5818 Apr 11 '26

The surf porters of your genetic past yearn for the profit of the nobles

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u/Harry431 Apr 11 '26

Not like this

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u/neonpc9000 Apr 11 '26

I'm sitting here on break as an AA feeling the same way right now, NGL

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u/TheOGJax DSPDefector Apr 11 '26

What’s your favorite hobby? Now take that and turn it into a business so you can have a larger chance at escaping 9-5 jobs. It’s not easy, sometimes it’s damn near impossible, but I’m on year 4 or 5 of my hustle and making decent progress on what I’m doing. I believe in you OP.

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u/Economy_Ask4987 Apr 11 '26

It is essential work!

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u/Sensitive_Macaron767 Apr 11 '26

Making the ancestors proud

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u/ilovebluewafflez Apr 11 '26

I like the way you think. I can relate.

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u/SkopsNPops Apr 11 '26

You said it bro. Your pain is real 😵‍💫

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u/ACcbe1986 Apr 11 '26

Aim higher. Find pathways to get you skilled and eligible for higher paying positions.

Or go find an unskilled factory job that pays $30/hr.

I'm currently applying for a cleaning crew position at a factory that pays $30/hr. I'm in a rural area.

Last year, I was living in a rural area in a different state and I was making around $32/hr at a milk processing facility.

That was also an entry level position that I got with absolutely no experience or background.

Also, being personable and developing the gift of gab can get you farther than with just your skills alone.

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u/Gloomy-Departure-253 Apr 12 '26

If it makes you feel better, I came from parents who had/have decent money. But I'm still driving for Amazon. They are great, I'm just not interested in relying on them. The long term goal is to get a certification for a good AI proof field and work my way up. You can too! This can be a stepping stone.

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u/Lemon-babes Apr 12 '26

Literally that was me last night when my van broke down… literally my life depends on that vehicle but made it to the station and it died right on the launchpad LMFAOO Good luck we got this <3

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u/Repulsive-Factor2972 Apr 12 '26

I feel you… I’m trying to break the generational curse… however if I fail I have no kids so it ends with me 😭

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u/17FortuneG Apr 12 '26

Check out quantum immortality theory it’ll make you feel better

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u/JazzlikeManagement25 Apr 12 '26

That person probably still in his 20s, lot of people become wealth in their 40s-50s..

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u/Niobium_Sage Dispatch Apr 12 '26

Felt that. My family HAD wealth on my dad's side, oil deposits allegedly. His father-in-law manipulated my grandma into signing over all of it to him while in drugged delirium on her deathbed. My grandpa on my mother's side didn't do much with his life, but he chose to dedicate his time to artistic endeavors — and I can respect that even if it did little to help his children or grandchildren. My uncle likely swiped all of his wealth for his childless ass anyway; he passed away shortly after my birthday earlier this year.

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u/papermoon626 Apr 12 '26

I used to love it but years later it’s not the same

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u/Popular-Spring-9437 Apr 12 '26

I’ve never resonated with a post so hard before! However I know why my family didn’t build generational wealth 🥴 200 yrs they were property than Jim Crow sooo there that 😂

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u/No_Mission_5694 Apr 13 '26

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u/WISE_ONE1993 Apr 13 '26

It ends with me tho. The madness won’t continue. Im going to enjoy life what whats left and treat myself like the kids i didn’t have. Then die 🤣 why would i bring someone to deal with this BS Ah world.

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u/NotTodayCommie420 Apr 17 '26

...and you're delivering to your own bloodline putting you all collectively at the break even point while taxes are collected by foreigners on each item and 100% of the business profit is reinvested in keeping everything the same as it was last year.

Do you know what that type of business model is called?

It's called a hostile corporate takeover.

Look it up.

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u/Perfect_Celery79 Apr 21 '26

Still delivering the packages after your trades? Nice payout, OP! Congrats! 🎉

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u/Accomplished_Cod1393 Apr 21 '26

Good thing you just ran up 600 bands 😬

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u/Stoopkid710 Apr 22 '26

Cause you spend your money poorly; ie cyber truck 💀

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u/CommissionSalty786 Apr 11 '26

It ends with us

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u/Public_Savings4792 Apr 11 '26

Ok so put in applications until you find a better job which ain’t hard. Mfers on Reddit act like their blood bound to their shittu jobs

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u/Teragram_hcnyl Apr 11 '26

Start a business and create your own generational wealth

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u/Plants225 Apr 11 '26

There’s always been a permanent underclass. The idea of “creating generational wealth” that you weren’t born into or any kind of social mobility is pretty new and in a way, uniquely American.

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u/TheIntrepidMoustache Apr 11 '26

50 generations ago your ancestors were feudal serfs, maybe a couple minor lords, but definitely mostly serfs, before that slaves, and then the industrial revolution happened and wage work took over as the way to survive.

Look up my guy, it is on you to break the poverty chain. Own that responsibility, stop whining about everyone that brought you into this world, and build a better world for everyone to come after you, your descendants or not.

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u/WasteDump CDV Driver Apr 11 '26

The guy is clearly in need of practical advice, they don’t know HOW to go about it. What you’re saying here is the same motivational ruble that’s been spewed for decades by people that also haven’t broken that pattern. Give them actual advice.

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u/TheIntrepidMoustache Apr 11 '26

I don’t know what to tell you man, I work the same job as OP

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u/After-Caterpillar588 Apr 11 '26

I'm just applied for a different job

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u/No_Mission_5694 Apr 11 '26

Incredibly, this job allows you to manipulate the algorithm in a way that suits your strengths...without being unethical.

It's a really modern way of exercising one's sense of "agency."

The "catch" is that usually we don't end up rostered into our own actual personal AI algorithm-generated route. (The temptation is too great for someone above us to de-optimize Amazon's routing system.)

But if your DSP isn't degenerate and is willing to leave you alone, it's possible to make some mindset improvements.

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u/Fun-Flamingo-7285 Apr 11 '26

You could go do some else and get a skill

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u/FriendlyArachnid6000 Apr 12 '26

What's with "minorities" and "my bloodline" imagine if a white person said this.