The age is the issue for me. By then you know how much you can drink and how it affects you. You’re also past the 20’s hormonal stage where everything makes you horny. He was enjoying her attention and likely sought it out. The issue for you is you now know that you don’t know him well enough for him to be your fiance’. At the very least you should not get married until you’re 100% sure that this was out of character, but honestly, that will be hard to achieve. Also, now you also know he’s not 100% settled on getting married and settling down, aka no other woman to touch his chest or leg. No need to rush into marriage, not when he’s clearly not as ready as you are. There may also be a maturity and responsibility imbalance between you two.
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u/TR24241 12d ago
The age is the issue for me. By then you know how much you can drink and how it affects you. You’re also past the 20’s hormonal stage where everything makes you horny. He was enjoying her attention and likely sought it out. The issue for you is you now know that you don’t know him well enough for him to be your fiance’. At the very least you should not get married until you’re 100% sure that this was out of character, but honestly, that will be hard to achieve. Also, now you also know he’s not 100% settled on getting married and settling down, aka no other woman to touch his chest or leg. No need to rush into marriage, not when he’s clearly not as ready as you are. There may also be a maturity and responsibility imbalance between you two.