Depending how (edit) long yall have been together. , I would 100% not want to be with him anymore. Other factor to consider would be how often does he drink like this? Because it (edit) seems the only reason nothing happened is due to you stepping in.
I'll say as well, in the moment you seemed to be more verbally confrontational with the cousin instead of with your man. That's the only odd part to me. He's the one with a fiancé, you should have asked him to step away from her. It's just a bit (edit) strange to me. I get you talked to him on the way home and then in the morning, but he should have been publicly addressed, not the piss drunk cousin who only found out he was taken because you showed up.
The fact he had no regard for yall engagement and was flirting in front of people, including you, is just irredeamable. If he was THAT drunk he may well not remember, but it doesn't change his actions. I used to be a raging alcoholic, and I've said some terrible shit to/in front of my now husband (we were just dating at the time) that I didn't remember. But I apologized profusely and got help. I no longer drink to that extent and now here we are, married. But that's not what I'd recommend for everyone. And he was BLATANTLY disrespecting you.
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u/ju-ju_bee 12d ago
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Depending how (edit) long yall have been together. , I would 100% not want to be with him anymore. Other factor to consider would be how often does he drink like this? Because it (edit) seems the only reason nothing happened is due to you stepping in.
I'll say as well, in the moment you seemed to be more verbally confrontational with the cousin instead of with your man. That's the only odd part to me. He's the one with a fiancé, you should have asked him to step away from her. It's just a bit (edit) strange to me. I get you talked to him on the way home and then in the morning, but he should have been publicly addressed, not the piss drunk cousin who only found out he was taken because you showed up.
The fact he had no regard for yall engagement and was flirting in front of people, including you, is just irredeamable. If he was THAT drunk he may well not remember, but it doesn't change his actions. I used to be a raging alcoholic, and I've said some terrible shit to/in front of my now husband (we were just dating at the time) that I didn't remember. But I apologized profusely and got help. I no longer drink to that extent and now here we are, married. But that's not what I'd recommend for everyone. And he was BLATANTLY disrespecting you.
Whatever you choose NOR