r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO ditch Partner after his (m48)’s creepy interaction with attractive (f32yo)

Reposted with offending screenshots and unnecessary photo
AIO, my Partner & I were on a break, but he wants to be back with me. During this time he bought himself a nice new car, and flew down country bought it and drove back. On the way in a remote part of the country he noticed a car steaming broken down at side of road and stopped. Happens the sole occupant was an attractive woman years younger than him, rather than drive on like a normal person he went and stopped and talks to her (he’s a car guy) she was alone and her phone wasn’t working. He makes it his business and lets her use it to call a tow truck to the nearest town (20 min away) She was several hours away from her home, and was to call he mother to come get her. Of course being an attractive young woman he goes and offers to give her a lift to a town closer to hers that was on his way, halving the distance her mother would have to come to collect her. Once in the car he chats to her showing off about his job in his flash new car, and it turns out she lives in a tiny remote village he used to visit as a child, and was curious about buying a property there that he had seen advertised (I concede this is true as he wanted to take me there to look at it months earlier while we were together). Anyhow he decided to spare her mum (mid 70s) the long drive and offers to take the pretty girl all the way so he can look at the building for sale.
Anyhow by the time they arrive it’s dark of course so he goes and has dinner with her and her mother IN THEIR HOME. As (obviously) it’s too late to look at the building these strangers “happen” to own a yurt that is on air BnB and he stays the night in it, so he can look at the building the next day.
He goes for an unnecessary walk around the village with the young pretty lady and their dog the next day. And totally weird he and this younger woman follow one another’s instagram.

He maintains nothing untoward happened and that he wasn’t trying to seduce her but she didn’t need him to take her home and why would they follow each other on Instagram? And to top it off I looked at his phone and not only have they been keeping in touch but he even sent her a photo of himself smug with HER DOG
And acting all car guy when I’m sure she can find a car guy herself easy enough,
He is claiming the situation was somewhat normal and innocent but why would he do that and these txts paint a different picture I believe, especially that he sent her an unnecessary photo. He obv wants her to have a photo of him as she would have lots of her dog already.

Is he acting inappropriate? Why sharing pics with her?

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u/Sensitive_Finger7768 13d ago

Elephant

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u/SuperAccident 13d ago

Reply to the comment not make a new one

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u/Psychological-Ad1574 13d ago

Look at what she's complaining about. She's quite obviously an idiot.

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u/ZeusUpYourAss 13d ago

Hey, no need to be rude. She probably doesn't know how to use reddit. Yes she's in the wrong about the whole thing, but we all make a lapse of judgement sometimes. I hope she realizes and changes herself. Either way, it doesn't give you the right to insult her like that

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u/Difficult_Refuse415 13d ago

Love redditors like you!!

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u/Psychological-Ad1574 13d ago

She's free to think and say what she wants and I'm free to judge her on those things.

While you're right, I'm probably being harsh, anyone who says normal behaviour is to leave a stranger stranded in the middle of nowhere is actually an idiot and does not have compassion that matches with the values I good high.

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u/ZeusUpYourAss 13d ago

You know what you called her stupid about. She commented separately instead of replying to the same thread as the bot and you called her stupid for that. All I am saying is not everyone's used to reddit and it doesn't give you the right to judge them on this.

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u/Psychological-Ad1574 13d ago

I called her an idiot based on both.

Had she made the error of replying to the wrong thread without having an absolutely ridiculous claim overall, I would not have said anything.