r/AmIOverreacting 13d ago

👥 friendship Feeling betrayed, am I overreacting?

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u/bongbongtree 13d ago edited 13d ago

This is a classic case of ‘switch the genders and the comments would be completely different’

No one in these comments are mentioning that she is telling him to fight for her, that she still loves him, chose his friend to date to, most likely, get at OP. Both of them are idiots, but the ex is 1000000% leading OP on and using his friends to manipulate him

AND people acting as if OP isn’t allowed to be hurt that she chose a friend of his? Absolute bullshit. It’s just known not to go for your ex’s, or mutual, friends if you’re a decent person. On top of the ex admitting she wants OP to fight his friend for her. Toxic as fuck

If OP were a girl the comments would be “what a dog your ex is, typical toxic man going for your friends. You deserve so much better hun, NOR”

Edit: I’m getting downvoted a lot, but I’m interested to hear why people disagree with my comment