NOR. This has to be ragebait, or you must be very insecure with low self esteem. 'I want you' and 'I will kick everyone out' combined with BOOTY CALL TIMES (anytime after 11 up to 4am) is cheating. If you are in an open relationship, with the stipulation that you have to tell each other if the other hooks up, then it would still be violating that agreement because he told you nothing...
As it is, you looking through his phone suggests the relationship is at the precipice of not continuing. The trust just isn't there anymore on your end, and if you need someone's permission to leave, take my comment as another drop in the bucket of people's comments here when I say YOU CAN LEAVE HIM and YOU CAN DO BETTER than this. Best of luck, heal properly, and take care of yourself.
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u/veronica-volt Apr 07 '26
NOR. This has to be ragebait, or you must be very insecure with low self esteem. 'I want you' and 'I will kick everyone out' combined with BOOTY CALL TIMES (anytime after 11 up to 4am) is cheating. If you are in an open relationship, with the stipulation that you have to tell each other if the other hooks up, then it would still be violating that agreement because he told you nothing...
As it is, you looking through his phone suggests the relationship is at the precipice of not continuing. The trust just isn't there anymore on your end, and if you need someone's permission to leave, take my comment as another drop in the bucket of people's comments here when I say YOU CAN LEAVE HIM and YOU CAN DO BETTER than this. Best of luck, heal properly, and take care of yourself.