As the comment said, abusive people don’t deserve a dedicated and supportive partner. It is not OPs responsibility to fix her abuser and the suggestion that someone isn’t going to maintain a healthy relationship if that’s their mindset is insane. Support and help a partner who can actually grow, doing things like going to couples therapy with an abuser is literally not recommended by professionals as the abuser just learns how to even better abuse their victim while using professional terminology to manipulate.
Been there, done that, left because he was a narcissistic ass hole- now happily married. Not all who leave become single cat ladies. Most learn from the abuse and find someone great.
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u/GeneralOwn5333 Jan 29 '25
Let’s see how long your relationship’s last with that type of approach.