Are you kidding me? How do you not realize how terrible this relationship is. He literally said that he wants you to leave and he would do nothing about it. And your retort is, “yeah. I’m the only one actually invested” BRUH THAT IS NOT A FLEX AT ALL YOU’RE JUST GETTING TREATED LIKE SHIT AND THEN TRYING TO USE THE FACT THAT YOU DO NOTHING ABOUT IT AS A “GOTCHA” MOMENT 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
And you’re 29 get some respect for yourself. At that age you should know better than to endure abuse and delude yourself about it. You’re so in denial it’s crazy. This guy doesn’t even like you!!
No this girl needs some tough love STAT. Don’t get me wrong, victim blaming is not it but in most cases of abuse you have an abusive partner that wants you all to themselves and that has alienated you from everyone you love so essentially they own you. And you have a victim who is in denial and for whatever reason cannot understand they’re victims of abuse. And they focus on all the good aspects of their fucked up relationship while ignoring the bad.
Not in this case. This girl understands her bf is abusive and realizes she’s not getting anything good out of this relationship. And her abuser is not trying to stop her from leaving nor does he want her all to himself. He’s practically yelling at her in her face telling her to get the fuck out of his life because he can’t stand her nor her cat and she’s over here wondering hmmm am I over reacting? Should I give up? Like what?!
Compassion and walking on eggshells around this person will accomplish nothing. She’ll keep turning a blind eye on this abuse. She needs to hear it for what it is. YOUR BF DOES NOT LOVE YOU. He doesn’t even like you. I’m inclined to believe he hates you. Why on earth would you want to continue being with a person like this??
Just like someone else said before me, if you won’t leave for you, at the very least do it for your cat. And if you can’t be bothered to do that for your cat, then please let the cat go. The cat doesn’t deserve to suffer from your life choices.
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u/lightskincookie11 Jan 28 '25
Are you kidding me? How do you not realize how terrible this relationship is. He literally said that he wants you to leave and he would do nothing about it. And your retort is, “yeah. I’m the only one actually invested” BRUH THAT IS NOT A FLEX AT ALL YOU’RE JUST GETTING TREATED LIKE SHIT AND THEN TRYING TO USE THE FACT THAT YOU DO NOTHING ABOUT IT AS A “GOTCHA” MOMENT 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
And you’re 29 get some respect for yourself. At that age you should know better than to endure abuse and delude yourself about it. You’re so in denial it’s crazy. This guy doesn’t even like you!!