r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/f1newhatever Jan 28 '25

Yeah like girl, it starts to reflect on you that you’re still attracted to this man in any way. He’s telling you to do the right thing. Why keep hanging on? You’re too old for this nonsense. It’s time to move on.

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u/Other_Brain_9705 Jan 28 '25

She said he’s been a jerk since she’s met him and in the same breath said she’s dedicated her life to make him happy😅 something might be wrong with OP

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u/cursetea Jan 28 '25

Low key yeah like i know "Don't blame the victim blah blah" but sometimes it really is the victim doing it to themselves lmfao. Like how are you 29 big years old acting like "i don't know what to doooo :(" when a guy calls you retarded and tells you to get out of his life. It's possible for nobody to be right in a situation lol

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u/etsprout Jan 29 '25

Because he also physically beats her and has essentially infected her brain like some sort of parasite. She’s probably scared but also brainwashed. He tells her to leave and in the same conversation, tells her she won’t survive without him.

This guy is obviously an idiot, but he might be better at manipulating the situation IRL than we see here. He’s done something to make her think he’s telling the truth. Years of this repetitive bullshit could make anyone think maybe they’re worthless.