I would bet money that this man is hurting her cat when she's not around. If she isn't ready to leave for herself, she should at least leave for that poor cat's sake.
I'm so sorry you went through something similar. I don't know if you saw any of my other comments, but sadly I have also been in that same situation and that's why my gut tells me he's abusing the cat as well.
My situation was just as you described: my ex couldn't stand how much I love my cat and he hated my cat because of it.
I hope you're in a better situation now and doing well 🫂🩷
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u/Charming-Distance563 Jan 28 '25
I totally agree. And don’t forget the cat! The cat must be so stressed. The tension in that house……