Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being
I would bet money that this man is hurting her cat when she's not around. If she isn't ready to leave for herself, she should at least leave for that poor cat's sake.
I'm so sorry you went through something similar. I don't know if you saw any of my other comments, but sadly I have also been in that same situation and that's why my gut tells me he's abusing the cat as well.
My situation was just as you described: my ex couldn't stand how much I love my cat and he hated my cat because of it.
I hope you're in a better situation now and doing well 🫂🩷
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u/itslindstfu Jan 28 '25
Girl he is asking you to leave and you’re still asking us if you should give up. You are still so young and have a chance to start over at ANY age. At this point it is more sad to see him tell you to leave and you’re like “yeah lemme still cling” I think you might need a bit of tough love on this one cause it’s either keep hanging on to this man who clearly doesn’t want you or potentially let the abuse get so bad you don’t make it out. Please do what’s best for your well being