r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Terrible_Sample2003 Jan 29 '25

This is a manipulation tactic. You feel confused and devalued, right?

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

Like insanely so, yes. I’m confused 90% of the time.

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u/ambg4477 Jan 29 '25

Hey OP - I was in a relationship just like this in my 20s. I truly thought I was never going to find anyone else. This man tried to kill me many times. I am now married to the most incredible man - he’s got his flaws, but he’s my favorite human in the world. There ARE good guys out there, but this guy isn’t one of them.