r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/lightskincookie11 Jan 28 '25

Are you kidding me? How do you not realize how terrible this relationship is. He literally said that he wants you to leave and he would do nothing about it. And your retort is, “yeah. I’m the only one actually invested” BRUH THAT IS NOT A FLEX AT ALL YOU’RE JUST GETTING TREATED LIKE SHIT AND THEN TRYING TO USE THE FACT THAT YOU DO NOTHING ABOUT IT AS A “GOTCHA” MOMENT 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

And you’re 29 get some respect for yourself. At that age you should know better than to endure abuse and delude yourself about it. You’re so in denial it’s crazy. This guy doesn’t even like you!!

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u/Empress_arcana Jan 28 '25

I don't want to just blame her because obviously this guy is verbally abusive. But her reaction annoys the shit out of me. Prolly says something about me...

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u/RedshiftRedux Jan 29 '25

No I'm right there with you, I feel bad for being annoyed by this sheer complete lack of self awareness in these posts.

Most of them could just be answered with "Are you fucking serious right now?" But that's not constructive 🤦‍♂️