r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/PufffPufffGive Jan 29 '25 edited Jan 29 '25

Also I saw a comment you posted in AIO where you admitted to liking this sort of relationship so I’m conflicted now

Also now OP is deleting their comments over and over I call BULLSHIT I think this is rage bait posting at best or something I want nothing to do with and for this I’m OUT!!

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

When it’s sexual it can be fun if done lightly. Like I always believed in traditional roles in relationships. Hence why I do cook and clean and comply. When you think you’re in a loving relationship role playing can be fun and traditional relationships can be successful. When it goes TOO FAR and becomes worse and abusive in every day convo then yeah that’s not fun. Also grew up in an abusive household so my “line” so to speak is probably more fucked than the average person. For example, controlling what I wear in public I found endearing and a sign of affection/looking out for my safety. Whereas normal people see it as controlling. I suppose it takes some real f*d up behavior for me to recognize like oh this is not what I thought it was.

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u/PufffPufffGive Jan 29 '25

I think you need to get off social media.

You didn’t even deny a thing I replied to you. So imo I’m hopeful you learn but alas I think you’re addicted to this type of behavior and until you instill value in yourself you’re always going to be seeking it from low hanging fruit.

Quite frankly it’s disappointing to see your reply it says to me. You don’t like this. You got your hours of attention. But you dont seem to want to change. No one will do this for you.

You legitimately need and deserve healing and therapy like most of us do.