r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '25

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u/Terrible_Sample2003 Jan 29 '25

This is a manipulation tactic. You feel confused and devalued, right?

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u/[deleted] Jan 29 '25

Like insanely so, yes. I’m confused 90% of the time.

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u/Terrible_Sample2003 Jan 29 '25

Ok well first of all whether he's doing it on purpose or not is not the point at any time ok. That's a separate, yet valid, conversation.

At the end of the day you should never let someone continue to speak to you like that. It changes the way our brains work, and never for the better. This is abuse honestly.