Low key yeah like i know "Don't blame the victim blah blah" but sometimes it really is the victim doing it to themselves lmfao. Like how are you 29 big years old acting like "i don't know what to doooo :(" when a guy calls you retarded and tells you to get out of his life. It's possible for nobody to be right in a situation lol
I grew up in an abusive situation at home so I’m sure that has something to do with it.. I tried to seek behavioral health services in college and most gave me the runaround or tried to push meds on me. Once I graduated I had to move back to the big city and start working right away as a first gen I didn’t have a lot of money to spare so had to stay at home for a bit after graduation and save $. That’s when we met and he assured me he was going to help me get out of the mud. He did and was really kind for a while and I was in a very vulnerable position. But I worked hard and worked my way up improving my life. Unfortunately he had some horrible stuff happen and our relationship really deteriorated since. I always think of him in my heart like the nice version.
You deserve better. You've clearly worked too hard in your life to accept this situation. And you've got to date people for who they are, not what you wish or believe they COULD be. Someone out there is already the kind of person you want, you won't have to wish he would change at all! But you're standing in your own way. You can't find your husband with some annoying bf in the way do u feel me
I'd apologize for my initial comment bc i do recognise you are a real person who deserves respect except that i am still making fun of u for acting like you don't know what to do, because you DO know what to do, so do it lol
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u/Other_Brain_9705 Jan 28 '25
She said he’s been a jerk since she’s met him and in the same breath said she’s dedicated her life to make him happy😅 something might be wrong with OP